I having been playing the tinder hard for a month and I am getting ok results. I pulled another number from a random on tinder and arranged to meet later. The time comes and no response from her. I was about head to the place we were going to meet, but then it stuck me. I was entering her frame and not the other way around. I have been reading the rational male and remembered that a woman is not the focus of the male. I didn't do on the a date with her, but I found something better. I am killing my inter beta.