When setting up a 1st date. Say you live close by to the park you’re going to. Is it better to tell the chick to come to your place first then ride together or is it better to meet her at the park then direct the date to have her come to your place afterwards to either do something or check something out?

I don’t want to trigger ASD, but I also want to create an excuse of plausible deniability on her part her to come back to my place