http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/03/11/nine-steps-to-avoid-neediness-and-oneitis/

Such a good article. Should be re-read regularly.

Important to keep in mind: 'Enjoy them for what they are'.

They won't be in your life forever so just go with it and ride the wave while it's there. Remember that you were happy before her and you'll be happy after her. This is independence in Stephen Covey's world. And your relationship with a girl should be interdependent. Two cool people coming together to make 1+1 equal maybe 2.1.

Remember AWALT. You need to remain that guy she fell for. If it was a sham and an act, you'll fail. Be true to yourself, and stay to true to yourself. Have her but don't need her. Maintain the life you had before and understand that you haven't embarked on some Disney journey that will lead you to be together and share your lives. It's a moment, a collection of experiences and if you're doing it right you'll either grow out of her, find better or you'll keep her around because she's an awesome addition to your life.

I think most guys see an LTR as a goal, a destination and once they reach it they relax and want to revel in the glory. Stop. Keep going. Keep moving forward.

When your life is important to you and you understand women and the red pill, you start seeing things differently and you think to yourself 'why would I de-rail all this awesome shit in my life over [just] a chick?'

I've been seeing a very high quality girl (near unicorn) and I worried for a bit that the she might test my oneitis resolve. But I've figured that she isn't better than me, her looks will fade, if I spend enough time I will get bored and if things continue I'll be able to get hotter and better chicks in my life. So enjoy it for what it is and keep going.

Keep your standards high and if she slips up, Next. For your sake and for her attraction's sake.