First of all. I am 32 with a degree from the top school in the state that I reside in. I am currently working in the financial industry as a stock and FX trader. I have a great build and some might call me a handsome guy. So I assume high SMV. But whatever, that's not exactly where I'm going with this.

I recently ended a 2.5 year relationship with a woman that was 3 years older than me. She was toxic. Had issues with depression, anxiety, always needed me around. Sex was great, she has hot, but near the end, I did not want any physical or emotional intimacy with her. Near the end, I knew it was over before it over, just a matter of time.

That was 9 months ago.

I am also of the uberman, alphaman, etc. philosophy. I'm even working on a polyphasic sleep cycle to help give me more time to do productive things in my work. I also understand the abundance theory with women, and that there are plenty of them out there. I want to sleep with women, but don't want to "dick" them over so to speak. I have high ethical and moral values, yet am willing to do what is necessary in life to further benefit my career, family, etc, thus all this brings internal conflict.

There are two situations with two women that I do not understand and need the advice from those that are wiser.

One revolves around a former college buddy that I was close with for about 3 years, but haven't been close with in about 10 years. As of now, he's married to this hot blondeshell of a wife. But he's out there using these sites like POF, tinder, etc. to meet and hook up with younger women, even though his wife is really hot, and has recently started to brag about it to me. I deep down think she knows what he is doing on the side, and has subtly made me aware that she might suspect. So where does my loyalty lie? Or do I even have any? Should I for all intents and purposes end the friendship and avoid this girl, even though I would sleep with her in the future if she wasn't married because she's hot enough that I would be willing to sleep with her and have some kids out of that. I think she is a good person, though I only met her a few times and on Facebook. I don't advocate sleeping around when you are married. I think marriage is a sacred thing, but that's a whole other story. For me, right now, I'm looking to hang and have sex with some women and not make things complicated. If the woman and the situation is right, I'm willing to go further to start a family.

There's also this one girl that showed interest in me. However, now a situation has come up where she feels worried because it's job related with us, even though I tried to convince her that nothing would happen. She is single and has no baggage. She is much younger than me, 20 soon to be 21. I mean, we talked on the phone for extended periods of time, facebook liking pictures and shit, whatever. I don't think she sleeps around either, but I can't be 100 percent about that, but my gut says otherwise. I still want her to come hang out with me, I would like to sleep with her, and if this "relationship" develops further, then so be it.

So thus, I have an internal battle with these two situations and an internal battle with my idea of woman as an entity.

I am trying to look at it from their perspective, the logical thing to do. But in the end, all I'm looking for is to meet some women, hang out, sleep with them, but not makes things complicated. Then, if and only if we gel, she's hot, and wants to make children, then so be it, I'm do to that.

Are there even women out there like that? I don't want to sleep with women, have them get emotionally attached to me, and then be forced to deal with that. I just want a woman to sleep with and can understand the rules of all this, with no emotional attachment, yet if things develop further relationship wise, then so be it.

I apologize for the long post, but I tried to make it as condense as I could. I'm looking for advice on all 3 situations. The 2 women described above, and an outlook on women moving forward in my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!