FR- So I am currently on holidays overseas. My tinder, date, pub game is pretty decent however when it comes to clubs I seem to strike out a lot. This seems to be the same when I'm Overseas.

Last night I went to a pub that turns into a club after 10:30. I was there by myself and arrived around 9:30-10. Sat at the bar and ordered a cocktail. Got comfortable in the room and noticed 2 HB 8's talking together. Headed over and started a conversation.

All was going well, getting plenty of IOI's from both of them. This was around 10 and at 10:30 the music kicked off and the clubbing began.

Headed to the dance floor, turns out these 2 girls are semi professional dancers and started tearing up the place. I dance like a typical straight laced white boy but held my own, just.

Around 11:30 made my move on one of the girls. All good. Making out, heavy grinding etc. around 12:30 said we should leave and head back to my hotel. She said she can't, I have plans. Now I just thought she was playing hard to get and ignored it and kept trying to escalate.

She was all over me through the night. Would not leave me alone. I even pushed her away several times through the night and started flirting with her friends and a few girls around the dance floor.

1:30am came and I was done, we had been talking filthy for the last half hour, and I wanted to take her home or just go to bed. This is when she tells me her male friend has already been organised to pick her up early morning. I said I didn't care, laughed it off. Spent probably 20 minutes playing around trying to get her to ditch him. Then she starts explaining she is only 18 (I'm 28) and her male friend is also her married boss who she is sleeping with on and off. I just finger banged her some more than left.

I'm know I should have confirmed the logistics earlier. I should have just ditched her as soon as she mentioned the other guy. Felt like such a waste of my time though to just next her. Also how do you guys close in a club? It usually just transitions if I'm on a date or at a pub etc, clubs seem to not work out that way. Just gets later and later and I never get the end result.

It's frustrating because it's the second night in a row almost the exact same thing has happened to me.

TL:DR- Made all the right moves i could think to make at the time but couldn't close in the club 2 nights in a row. Didn't source logistics when it came up in conversation costing me a wasted night or a learning experience. Depends how you look at it.