I’m new to this sub, but I find it so entertaining and fascinating. As much as I want to completely shit on TRP, it’s honestly opened my eyes to SO MUCH about the way men think and how they navigate through dating, sex and relationships.

I realized that my ex was a beta buxx (did anything and everything for me) and after leaving him I was single, having sex with whoever I wanted whenever I wanted until I fell for someone and we’ve been happily together for 3 years (shockingly never discussed n-counts. Still not sure what the N refers to.).

I feel like men shame women for indulging in the same sexual urges that men have because they convince themselves that women don’t enjoy sex and they all secretly want to get married to every guy they bone. I mean maybe some women who might, those who don’t know how to make themselves cum, or sleep with dudes who don’t go down on them for ages (why some women would do that is beyond me). But imo, birth control changed the game and we are taking full advantage of the pleasure. Sex is a high. I got high from the sex I had while single, and the men were always the ones trying to “lock it down” while I was trying to remain single. The term “cock carousel” is spat at women like an insult, but if there was a coochie carousel term thrown around men should be chest bumping each other with pride lol.

Anyway I really appreciate TRP and all the dudes on reddit to opening my eyes to the privileges I’ve had in both the SMP and the RMP. Like it’s okay to accept it, relish it and enjoy it. Why tf not?? And if I’m gunna “hit a wall” when I’m 30 in a few years anyway literally why wouldn’t I take full advantage?

They’ll try to convince you that your “N-count” will ruin all dating prospects for you but I disagree. My count is reasonable (I stick with repeat high quality offenders) And this might piss a few dudes off but at the end of the day your N count is only as high as you say it is. shugs. Not that I advocate lying. It just is what it is.

Anyway, rather then be offended I’ve grown so much more appreciative of this time in my life. Aging DEFINITELY impacts women in a more negative way. 30 I’m not afraid of. 45/50 sure. Whatever the case maybe. Live life the way you want to and be happy about the benefits that come with being a woman! It’s not perfect by any means, and maybe my ultra positive experience is anecdotal at best, but I don’t see why wouldn’t take full advantage of their prime.