Backstory:

  • Gf has friend with a bf, both insecure, both accuse eachother of cheating daily, drama shit yadda yadda
  • She (the gfs friend) has cheated on her bf before some years back

IOO1: About 1 year ago gf and I are at her place alone banging. Her friend lives in the same building and came up to her place, walked in, waited for god knows how long, then get this: knocks on my gfs bedroom door. At this point we hadn't heard her come in the main door so we're a little spooked. After we find out who it is, I throw blankets over my junk and my gf puts a shirt on, then tells her she can come in. This girl walks in and just stands there near the bed for over 1 minute. She knew what was going on without any of us saying anything. She asks my gf if she wants to hang out. My gfs kind of speechless at this point so I say "Come back in 30 minutes" and she hesitates for another 20-30 seconds staring wide eyed at me before I tell her again and she finally leaves.

IOI2: Nothing specific, but I've noticed she's always really excited to talk to me. Not in a giggle dorky way, but always wants to talk to me. She's also brought up sex a lot both in front of my gf and I, and 1 on 1 (like if my gf goes to the bathroom or something). Like the time I was talking about this rad buffet place named Yang Ming, and when I told her the name she responded with "Gang bang?" in a kind of question-like tone. I just laughed and said "Yes, It's called gang-bang". Other times she would ask us if we've ever had sex in the car or out in public.

IOI3: She asked my gf if she could have my number. My gf is very non-jeaous, and respected me by saying she would have to ask me herself. The next day I picked my gf, her friend and her friends bf and dropped him off at a mall and was driving back to my gfs. She waited until her bf was out of the picture before asking. I said yes. A few seconds went by and she didn't signal she was ready for the number so I asked her if she was ready to put it in, she enthusiastically responded with a big "oh yesssss" and it was only after that I clued in.

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She texted me that night with boring shit like "whats up" etc and it hasn't gone anywhere since. She will go like 5 days without texting then randomly hit me up with "hi" wanting to do text small talk, which I don't do. So my question is what the fuck is up with this woman? Does she want the dick? My gut tells me that during the bedroom incident if I had pulled the blankets back and told her "yeah, come chill" that she would have been down. However I doubt myself because I've been way off with gut feelings in the past and it was very embarrassing. I thought surely with us texting the truth would come out eventually but she seems to be playing some sort of game. I half believe I'm just a tool in her arsenal to make her bf jealous in their drama games.