About a week ago I deleted all social media off my phone. It’s distracting and messes with my mental space. I usually get home from work at about 8pm, then usually cook, then hit the gym around 9 or so, which makes me free about 10 or later. I spend maybe 2 or so days a week with close friends or family when I have the time to.

I used to get laid no problem with any girl of my choice because I used to be more involved socially with people. I’ve put a lot more time into myself and don’t spend much time in social circles anymore because I simply can’t relate to the people I used to anymore. Nor do I care what anyone thinks of me. I’ve had a few FWB setups, but they’ve all fallen off like they usually do, girl finds boyfriend.

I recently downloaded bumble with pure intentions of smashing only. Nothing serious whatsoever. I don’t have time go on dates, talk all the time, etc. that most others do.

I definitely live in top 20% so I feel I have the right to go straight to there, I’ve done it plenty, just not with any apps. I make good money, I take care of myself well, weekly haircuts, good style, been working out since beginning of the year, clear skin, white straight teeth, good hair, etc.

My main question is, how do other high value males get straight into pants with minimal effort. Obviously most women aren’t going to just immediate reply to “let me smash”. I usually just have girls come to my condo, I smash then they leave. Only time this year I took a girl on a date was because I wanted to see the avengers and didn’t want to go alone. This isn’t new to me, just the dating app part is. I usually know the girls I’m talking to and have built something with before getting to that point. I’m also aware these apps are fucks fests.

here’s an example of a match