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OP’s logic: I want to give a plate comfort even though she doesn’t give me comfort tests.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:24 AM
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Don’t fix it unless it’s broke
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:33 PM
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Maybe performance anxiety?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:51 PM
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Manufactured fight so Chad can take her out for Valentine’s Day. Hard next and hit the gym boyo it only gets better from here.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:49 PM
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Thank you for your well thought out reply. I’d like to respond to a few of your points. We are going to have to wait for the outcome of the trial. One thing we can guarantee is that not a single commenter on the trial will have listened to all the evidence, so won't be truly able to judge it as well as the jury. Basically, people are going to be relying on their own prejudices and a few quotes here and there. I work from home and have watched the entirety of the trial coverage (there’s no camera…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 05:20 PM
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I like this one. Not that I plan on getting caught but if I do I’ll put this one in the ol’ toolbox
/r/askTRP25/01/20 07:51 PM
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Is this in the USA? Huge if true
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:42 PM
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MDMA is an empathogen. A drug meant to amplify emotions, specifically those regarding to feelings of love. The girl in question is a plate, you’re now both experiencing amplified feelings of love with someone who you’re in a grey area where you’re not committed yet have feelings. She’s also seeing another man who’s name she called you and you couldn’t process this rationally and got hurt. You had a “deep convo” with her about love and mushy stuff. There’s no possibly way to hold a stoic frame wh…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:54 PM
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Going on a keto diet worked wonders for my ADD, maybe a more holistic approach could work for her?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:43 PM
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I’d say avoid taking ecstasy/molly/mdma with women you’re fucking. Makes the feels go on overdrive on both sides and it rarely works in your favor.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:41 PM
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I have news boyo, if she’s your only plate she’s not a plate, you’re the plate. Get your numbers up.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:31 PM
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Great read.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:30 PM
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“Had the talk” “Not in a relationship” Pick one.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:09 PM
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Withdraw attention and apply dread boyo
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:05 PM
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Weird? No Tips? Sidebar
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:02 PM
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Your pictures probably suck. There’s a guide floating around somewhere here that helps with what your photos should look like. I had the same issues then I learned how to scout for good locations/lighting, and how to use the timer on my camera and got a few good shots. Matches up went up significantly.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:48 AM
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Good theory but that quote sounded like you’re trying to set up a business meeting. Pick 2 days that you’re free and offer a date. “Let’s grab drinks next week is Tuesday or Thursday better for you?” Flows better. Gives her options.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:46 AM
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Abundance my man. When you have a few plates in rotation you’ll have no reason to want to settle down.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:43 AM
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If you can get her to send nudes you can get her to come over. When you sense she’s “hot on the idea” go for the kill and invite her over ASAP
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:34 AM
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PM me if you decide to go I live 10 minutes from Miami Beach and I can wing for you and take an HB off your hands if need be
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:18 PM
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However you want. Maybe some playful teasing like “not sure if you can keep up with me” You’re the prize, control your frame.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:31 PM
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If it’s not a hell yes it’s a no boyo. Talk to other women and don’t catch oneitis.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:44 PM
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Right in the middle id say. No state income tax in Miami or Vegas. Depends on the neighborhood regarding housing because the closer you are to downtown the more you’ll pay. You can find deals near the beach especially North Beach, North Bay Village, Surfside, Bay Harbour Islands
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:40 PM
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Right in the middle I’d say. Miami and Vegas both have the advantage of no state income taxes. Depends where you want to live in Miami because if you’re in downtown/edgewater/brickell/wynwood you’re going to have really high housing prices but you can find deals in North Beach/Surfside/even South beach if you look hard enough.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:38 PM
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Honorable Mention: Miami I moved here from Boca Raton and my N-count has skyrocketed.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:14 PM
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I swapped smoking for Juul. Worked for me and it’s way more socially acceptable these days.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:02 PM
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Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to. Don’t LTR sluts. You did a poor job screening her before putting a title on it.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:00 PM
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When in doubt ask her out. Escalate and find out.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:59 PM
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Unpopular opinion: Being called bro isn’t the end of the world. Look at her actions not words. I get called man, dude, bro by one of my plates and we still fuck YMMV Escalate and find out what kind of bro you really are.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:37 AM
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If she’s a plate, who cares. If she’s an LTR hard next.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:24 PM
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Fair enough. I was drunk on Bourbon St when the pic was taken. And it was pretty warm in the bar but I get it.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:34 AM
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$25/hr I’ll read it to you over the phone
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:18 AM
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You’re missing the point. If doing what I wanted meant wearing a MAGA hat in all my photos while on tinder in a lefty city like I live in it would hurt my chances of getting matches, regardless whether i have rock solid frame. We’re talking tinder here where the girl doesn’t even get to experience my frame of she doesn’t swipe right. I’m trying to get a better feel for my audience, ya dig?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:14 AM
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If she’s a plate, you shouldn’t care. If you haven’t hooked up with her yet you should care even less.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:12 AM
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How do you plan to administer this spray?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:10 AM
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Sleeping with co-workers isn’t as frowned upon in the restaurant industry as it is in others. Isolate. Escalate.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:30 PM
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Don’t spend more time on the phone than you plan to spend in bed with her.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:17 AM
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Soft next. Try again when you feel like it.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:13 AM
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That’s the problem. Don’t talk about sex before having sex. Getting her to admit it might be good for your ego but serves no real purpose. Isolate. Escalate. Let it happen.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:09 AM
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Hard rule: I only add them on social once I fuck them more than once and at their request
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:18 PM
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You can’t help anyone that doesn’t want it.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:47 AM
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A&A for all shit tests, in person or online. “I’m on here to find someone to watch my goldfish when I travel for business. What are some things that set you apart from some of the others I’m interviewing?” The idea is to get her to laugh and then qualify herself.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:45 PM
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This guy gardens
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:28 PM
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“I don’t even know how to read I just thought the cover looked cool” Then move on
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:19 PM
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Because women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to commitment. Women feel after giving you sex for long enough that they’re entitled to a relationship. It’s your job through solid frame, dread, and push/pull to keep them close enough to think there’s a possibility of an LTR, without any commitment on your part.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:05 PM
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I have the same problem. Former fat kid, pretty much lifelong sugar addict. I do the keto diet and keep myself on a tight leash. One cheat day every 2 weeks only if i worked out 10 times in the 2 weeks. And workout the day of/after the cheat day. Ketosis will take away your sugar cravings, you’ll actually feel like shit when you “relapse” which encourages you to keep on the diet. Keto is a lifestyle, and a healthy one at that. Give it a shot and do strict keto for 1 month and I promise your suga…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:11 AM
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It really comes down to personal preference and discipline. I’ve been doing keto on/off for the last 13 years. It works for me because I have a crazy addictive personality and one cheat snack will end up with a 2-3 day binge of candy and cookies ending with me feeling like shit. I recognize my triggers and restrict carbs. It’s not ideal for my training (competitive CrossFit) but neither is eating 4000 calories of sugar so I take the lesser of 2 evils.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:33 PM
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Text game is being able to hold the subjects interest long enough to get what you want out of them for example; a date. Think of it like in-person game but the luxury of being able to think out your responses. Trial and error is the only think that will get you good at text game.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:54 PM
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Soft next. Talk to other women. Lift. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:05 PM
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If she’s a bartender traveling like that she probably has a sugar daddy. Few girls working as a bartender can afford multiple international trips a year. She just wants the meat boyo. Text her, set up a date, isolate, escalate.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:37 PM
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She’s a plate and knows it so yes. Definitely not LTR material.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:52 PM
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I secured 3 ONS and have 5 solid plates in rotation all from tinder in the last 3 months. One of which is a “retired” pornstar. It’s an attractiveness game. Saying it’s for guys who have no in person game is pure cope. Get your aesthetics game up boyo and then tell me tinder isn’t a goldmine. Disclaimer: I live in Miami, 2 of the 3 ONS were tourists. My text game is A1. I’m an objective 8/10, higher if I’m not eating carbs. I don’t daygame, and don’t go to clubs/bars so 100% of my approaches are…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:49 AM
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It’s a no win scenario. You approach and get blown out or put into orbit. Now you’re the weird guy who hits on girls at the gym. You plate her and it breaks. You still have to see her every day. 3a. You and up in an LTR with her and you lose your “me time” because she’s at the gym when you are. 3b. You end up in an LTR with her and you tell her the gym time is your “me time” so she stops working out and gets fat.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:41 AM
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Protein bars, protein shakes, eat larger meals when you’re not working. Track your calories/macros with Myfitnesspal. Often people struggling to gain weight are eating less than they think.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:37 AM
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Noopept is another good inexpensive and easy to get alternative to provigil
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:35 AM
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Try the sleep cycle app. I’ve been using it for 10 years nightly. It uses the phones microphone to listen to your sleeping and shows you your sleep patterns. This will be telling. Also try melatonin (1mg or less, any more is a waste and will leave you groggy) It gets you in a deep sleep quick. In addition to this follow these ironclad methods for healthy sleep: Go to bed at the same time every night No phone/tv/blue light for at least 1hr before bedtime No caffeine/stimulants at least 4 hours be…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:34 AM
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Learn to calibrate your push/pull game and get your tonality straight. If you can handle it (it’s surprisingly tough) neg yourself in the mirror, look for your body language and listen for your tone. You’ll be able to see what’s off and be able to fix it.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:26 AM
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Your head is on straight...be thankful for that. Your back on your mission, lifting, spending time with family/the boys, and aren’t taking responsibility for what happened because it wasn’t your fault. Healing takes time and any non-LARPer here will tell you that. You’ll get your mojo back soon enough. If you’re ready, hop on tinder and talk to women, it’s a low effort way to get some cheap validation and show yourself that you’re still the prize. You’ll be over this thot in no time boyo.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:24 AM
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If your ability to understand sarcasm is as bad as you just displayed you have zero chance of bagging this broad. Good luck.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:08 PM
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Have her take her clothes off and pose Paint the words “I want to fuck you” on the canvas Call her over to see if she likes what you painted Fuck her
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:49 PM
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Weed and pickup don’t mix. Even 8+ hours after I smoke I still have brain fog and I can’t bring my A-game
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:37 PM
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If that’s the case then you dodged a bullet. Good on you
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:29 PM
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You have my permission to bang a 43 year old milf from tinder. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:33 PM
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With all that said it’s still worth one more shot getting her to meet up solo. I honestly don’t think you messed up all that bad. If she declines no harm no foul.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:32 PM
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You sounded butthurt in your reply.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:20 PM
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Don’t take your ex back, you mailed the stuff back, held frame, didn’t give in to her games...all good on you. As for the regret, it’s normal, it gets easier over time. In the meantime talk to other women, your ex will be a distant memory soon enough.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:19 PM
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Stop getting addicted to the dopamine hit of constant texting
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:24 PM
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Miami resident here. It’s dumb expensive here, $1200/mo will barely get you a studio, you’d have to live way south or west where there’s nothing to do and nobody speaks English to live that cheap, or live with a roommate (better idea). And they’re not just handing out $52000/yr jobs here, employers use ‘no state income tax’ as a way to underpay employees.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:23 PM
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Amazon
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:53 PM
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Text game is high level stuff and a lot of guys mess it up which is why it’s advised to only text for logistics. That said we live in a digital world and with all the attention girls have thrown at them constantly (especially with online dating) it’s important to “stay relevant” especially if logistics prevent you from meeting within 3 days of getting the number. Feel free to DM me specific questions.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:49 PM
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You posted this 10 minutes after your original post...you did not read the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/11/19 09:42 PM
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Nothing wrong with a day after text. Just don’t get wrapped up in a long or boring conversation. Try to keep texting for logistics only.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:32 PM
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Soft next. Talk to more women. Avoid phone calls until after you’ve met them. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:58 PM
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My rule of thumb is anything past 10:30pm is a booty call
/r/askTRP13/11/19 03:19 PM
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You should probably read the sidebar before she gets there, your replies show you need a lot of help
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:40 PM
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Accused of what? She didn’t even come over lmao
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:38 PM
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Accused of what? She didn’t even come over lmao
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:38 PM
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“Your body’s not a temple, it’s an amusement park, enjoy the ride” It’s the only thing on my tinder profile and it motivates girls to have casual sex with me. YMMV
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:27 PM
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That would have been helpful to note in the OP Yeah your only option is to ghost/block
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:24 PM
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Don’t “try” to fuck her, just be cocky and funny, pass shit tests (college girls shit test everyone they find even remotely attractive), light kino, strong eye contact, push/pull, and if you get IOI’s and choosing signals then isolate and escalate. This should be the framework for every attractive woman you encounter whether it’s a date or you just run into them at a coffee shop and spark conversation.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:33 PM
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Act beta, triple and quadruple text her, act crazy when she doesn’t text you back right away, talk about your feelings and problems. Eventually she’ll get sick of you and leave. Best part is she’ll think it’s on her terms not yours.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:29 PM
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Bringing it up is super beta. It reeks of jealousy, insecurity, and mate guarding. If following other guys is a boundary she should either: Know it is and it’s on her if she violates it..soft next You never set the boundary so she doesn’t know she’s crossing the line. You calmly mention it once that it’s not acceptable behavior, give her a free pass this once, if it happens again..soft next
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:25 PM
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Social proof is huge. If you’re seen speaking to (preferably high SMV) women in a light, fun, playful way and other women see that it will have a positive effect on your SMV
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:20 PM
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I do 90% of my shopping at H&M they have great prices and selection. Great for basics, sometimes I’ll find shirts on the clearance rack for under $5 Marshall’s/TJ Maxx are also good places to find decent brands for cheap
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:26 PM
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Two of my plates I see 2-3 times a week, one I see 1-2 times I’m working on getting a couple more in rotation so I can cut the 2-3x plates down to 1-2x since 2-3 is starting to give these girls the wrong idea
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:11 PM
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YMMV but I knew a Muslim girl (no hijab) in college that only did BJ’s and anal
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:29 AM
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This is more of an Alt TRP thing
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:01 PM
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She’s not totally innocent here otherwise she would set your boy straight for you. Sounds like she wants to keep him in orbit. Tread carefully.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:54 PM
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TLDR: You got oneitis for a girl you spoke to on the internet. You waited too long to escalate for a meetup. She lost interest. Your ego is broke because of this. Also water is wet. 2/10 field report, would not read again.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:25 PM
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Using RP tactics for a BP goal never works
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:46 PM
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Unpopular opinion: Text something stupid like a meme this friday keep the conversation short and light (how was your week, etc), then again the day before and once more day of. A week is a tough time to hold interest before a first date. I found a week of no contact before a first date will result in a flake.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:42 PM
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You set boundaries and left when she crossed them. Good call. If you stick it out I promise it would only have gotten worse from there.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:02 AM
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Approach. Isolate. Escalate. In that order.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:01 AM
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How bad could it be?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:10 PM
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Text for logistics. Phone calls don’t work for women under 40
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:58 PM
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There’s a fine line between being funny/witty and interesting and being a straight up clown... once you strike that balance game becomes alot easier
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:06 AM
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It’s worth one more shot, if you can’t lock a date down unfollow and move on
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:54 AM
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If you’re training for size a 5 day split will work better. 5x5 is more for beginner strength
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:23 PM
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Probably not escalating enough, look for IOI’s, start with light kino and go from there.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:07 PM
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Oh please this post is far more substantial than most of the threads these non sidebar reading purple/blue pill betas post here on a daily basis
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:05 PM
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Solid answer.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:56 PM
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Congrats on your 2nd day on TRP, give the sidebar a read, when you come down from your trip Until then GTFO and let us improve our lives while you beat off to a grateful dead poster in your mother’s basement hippiefag
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:55 PM
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Isolate and escalate to find out
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:42 PM
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Avoid the topic of addiction, unless you being around alcohol in a bar setting will trigger a relapse you can always order club soda in a rocks glass with lime. When I was training for a CF competition and not drinking I’d still do bar meetups and just order a club soda. One time a girl called me on it and I just said I’m training for a competition and it never came up again.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:24 PM
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Encouraging addicts to take drugs is the exact opposite of what TRP is meant for.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:22 PM
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It’s not a big deal in college... if you’re in your 40’s living in a share house it could be a turnoff. Exception if you live in a big city with expensive real estate like NYC, San Francisco
/r/askTRP28/10/19 11:40 AM
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Solution: Talk to those type of women. AWALT The strategy is no different
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:53 AM
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Tell her you’re busy. Then spend the whole night reading the sidebar so you don’t have to come and ask for step by step instructions on how to handle your plate.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:42 AM
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A couple things don’t make sense to me. Who at 21 years old has a high paying government job? What 21 year old woman has $20k of disposable income to buy sex toys? That on top of her being into weird anime? I’ve never met a normal well-adjusted person who is heavy into anime. My opinion: She’s a compulsive liar, you have her on a pedestal, she openly talks about dudes she dates to you, for some reason you didn’t escalate or close on the first date (probably because you were existing in her frame…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:35 AM
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Plates break move on
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:30 AM
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Who cares she’s a 5.5/10 She probably knows she has a low SMV and sex is the only real card she has to play
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:30 AM
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Look up the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:46 PM
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Check out this guy @guerillazen on IG. He posts a lot about posture. Honorable mention: @smashwerx He’s a chiropractor and fitness guy that posts posture fixing exercises and other exercises that can be useful for mobility issues
/r/askTRP27/10/19 11:36 PM
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Hard next both of them... they go to jam concerts
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:43 PM
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Block them, avoid places they frequent.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:40 PM
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Check my post history I answered this earlier today. I’m driving otherwise I’d type it out again.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 11:38 PM
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I’ve tried both and the first seems to work better. I have a lot of pics of me working out, doing CrossFit, etc so I’ll say something like “You seem to like fit guys, and I happen to like (something from profile) girls” If they have a blank bio, or are hard to read I’ll say “You seem to like fit guys, and I happen to like girls with a pretty smile”
/r/askTRP26/10/19 10:24 PM
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Not to distract from the OP... But I wonder if anybody’s had success banging these girls for free on this site? Surely these girls are fucking Chad’s for free and they’re meeting them somewhere.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:51 PM
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“I had a feeling we’d match”
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:35 PM
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“I had a feeling we’d match”
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:34 PM
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Do what works for you man. All of my current plates I got off tinder. I don’t have as much success cold approaching.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:39 PM
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If you don’t someone else will
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:58 PM
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This is more for the main sub but solid post nonetheless .
/r/askTRP25/10/19 05:49 PM
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Since when do hypergamous women treat men in a mature, considerate, or decent fashion? If you’re here to better yourself, read the sidebar. If you’re here to argue GTFO.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 05:46 PM
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Keep it platonic, don’t hang out at night unless it’s to study, if you’re hanging 1 on 1 make sure it’s in a public place
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:39 PM
3

Safety, security, stability, typically have more money.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:39 PM
22

If she blocked you after a small fight over the phone she’s probably already checked out. Soft next. Hit the gym. Talk to more women.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:04 PM
31

Don’t text back so fast, only text for logistics, only see her for sex. Cut off the attention, dates, gifts, etc. It’s easier said than done because when you shower her with gifts and attention then abruptly stop it can go one of two ways: She will get back in line because of the withdrawal. She will bounce to someone else who will provide her the comfort and attention. Either way it’s on your terms and that’s what’s most important.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:30 AM
5

That’s an SMV check for you. Could have been anything, that guy could have had a 40k Rolex on, could have resembled a guy who alpha widowed her last year. Good for you on making the intro, you’re in Vegas there’s plenty of other women to talk to.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 02:11 AM
1

Stop doing drugs, start lifting.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 11:44 AM
6

If your girl is going out dressed like that only one of you thinks you’re in an LTR...and it’s definitely not her
/r/askTRP24/10/19 12:27 AM
0

Go on the old row Instagram and see what those douchebags are wearing. Seems like polos, short shorts, jerseys are all in
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:14 PM
1

“This sexy mofo is taking you out on friday night, meet me at X, at Y o’clock, sound good?”
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:33 AM
1

Classic example to using RP tactics to fulfill a BP goal.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:22 AM
1

I was in Downtown San Jose
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:19 AM
8

I DJ’d in college which got me tight with a lot of frat guys and into parties without having to pay dues or anything like that. Like anything in life if you can provide some sort of value to the group they’ll accept you.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:18 AM
2

Why don’t you text her and find out?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:15 AM
3

Join a club, frat, intramural sports team
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:29 PM
1

Weird flex but ok
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:28 PM
18

IMO gaming girls at the gym falls under the category of shitting where you eat. Things don’t work out you’re either the weird guy who hits on girls at the gym or worse, the guy who gets me too’d and has their reputation ruined at the gym
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:27 PM
48

This formula has yielded me success in the past. Once you’re in bed making out... Get her to start giving you oral while you’re on your back laying down. Spin her her around to the 69 position, start eating her out while she’s blowing you. Start “exploring/rubbing” (not inserting) her anus with your finger and gauge her reaction. If she stops you do not proceed to steps 4 and beyond. Make sure your finger is properly lubed up and slowly insert the tip of your finger, again gauging her reaction. …
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:19 PM
2

You don’t really know if they’re interested or not because you never asked for their number
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:55 PM
11

Sounds good to me
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:49 PM
310

Follow the formula. Cut contact with all parties involved DO NOT apologize...this can be interpreted as an admission of guilt Lawyer up
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:49 PM
2

I’ve pulled more in Miami/South Florida in general than anywhere else I’ve lived. More sexually open women, more foreign born women, women wear less clothing since it’s always hot here, lots of tourist women looking for fun on vacation, and I’d say women here in general are hotter than where I’ve lived in the past (NYC, Atlanta, Silicon Valley)
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:52 PM
5

Hooking up with a step sister is shitting where you eat 2.0
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:43 PM
1

My theory is if you get IOI’s but no shit tests, she’s probably just DTF, and mature enough to not play games. Story Time... I had a similar situation with one of my current plates. First date I saw her eyes checking me out but no shit tests or really any sexual tension. Freaked me out to the point I almost didn’t try to escalate...then after 2 drinks at the bar I say I gotta go and offer her a ride home, long story short we end up in her bed not too long after. I now see her weekly, we don’t ta…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:29 PM
32

Unless you have rock solid frame the risk of catching feels and setting yourself back is very high fucking around with exes. My advice is don’t dig in the trash
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:22 PM
3

If you’re as smart as you say you are try to think less when interacting with girls. Dumb yourself down a bit you’re not talking to rocket scientists, you’re talking to women
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:26 PM
3

I like to think of it like a sales job where you focus your attention on the prospects most interested/likely to buy
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:23 PM
8

If you’re calling her your girlfriend before you have sex you’re doing it wrong
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:22 PM
3

Unless you’re a natural born salesman or have a great idea for an invention, you severely limit your ability to make money by not having a college degree
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:38 PM
2

Given the dates I’d make light banter monday asking what kind of tequila she likes, keep messages short and sweet, maybe make a bold assumption based on what she says... “Reposado huh? You must want to really party” Then go cold til tuesday morning and say something short “Looking forward to tonight, let’s see if you take tequila like you said you could ;)”
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:52 PM
1

Ask yourself if going to a cool bar in the city and not getting laid is better than going to a local spot and getting laid. Proceed accordingly. Once you bang you can show her the cool spots IMO
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:14 PM
1

Ask yourself if going to a cool bar in the city and not getting laid is better than going to a local spot and getting laid. Proceed accordingly. Once you bang you can show her the cool spots IMO
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:13 PM
1

On a first date logistics are important. Try and get her to meet a place close to your or her apartment that way it’s no more than a 5-10 minute walk or drive once you escalate. 30 minutes drive from date spot to apartment gives a lot of time for her hamster to spin and get cold feet
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:36 PM
1

I see what you’re saying but what’s the point? So you go in as an E-4 where you could just go the officer route and go in as an O-1 and make a lot more money and have a better opportunity to make more money and put yourself in a better situation career-wise. Just my 2 cents because I enlisted in the Army National Guard during college and if I could do it all over again I would have done ROTC or OCS
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:31 PM
11

Don’t use so many emojis it’s feminine
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:18 PM
9

Next time she shit tests you tell her you need to ask an Internet forum how to respond and it’ll be about an hour until you can effectively reply
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:48 PM
3

Then get your head right, read the sidebar, swipe on ugly women on tinder and fuck an ugly broad to get your confidence up. Nobody on this forum is going to cure your insecurity
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:07 AM
1

Be careful inviting anybody off tinder over before meeting in a public place. But I’d try to get her out for a drink/coffee tonight close to your/her place then escalate as usual and suggest a nightcap at hers/yours
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:06 AM
4

Be careful inviting anybody off tinder over before meeting in a public place. But I’d try to get her out for a drink/coffee tonight close to your/her place then escalate as usual and suggest a nightcap at hers/yours
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:05 AM
1

When in doubt escalate and find out. Also read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:03 AM
2

What’s the 8th day of the week called?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:00 AM
5

You’re the prize. Start lifting again. Re-read the sidebar. Talk to more women.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:58 AM
12

That will not fly in NYC I guarantee that
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:57 AM
2

Tinder is a numbers game first off but secondly you have to consider she’s one swipe from a guy with way higher SMV than you at all times. I come in guns blazing and straight for a number in 5 messages or less. If she’s texting back fast I’ll even reply instantly, the important thing is getting her off the app and into a date before someone better comes along. If you haven’t built any real attraction taking hours between messages is a great way to get ghosted
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:56 AM
1

Sounds like she was looking for an excuse to get mad at you and do what she wanted. I’d be careful with this one and start talking to other women, play some dread game until she gets her act in order.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:52 AM
2

Not directly answering your question but why do you want to enlist if you’re in college? Finish your degree and go to OCS or if your school offers it join ROTC. Enlisting with a college degree is a waste of time and money. I have nothing else worthwhile to contribute to this thread.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:49 AM
4

You have to strike while the iron is hot on tinder because Chad Thundercock is always one swipe away. If your schedule allows always try to go for a same/next day meetup
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:45 AM
1

And the subs as well
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:09 PM
3

You don’t want her to flirt with guys in front of me but you’re not mate guarding? Don’t go, stay home and read the sidebar instead. There’s a section on abundance mindset you could benefit from.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:53 PM
9

Then get off the internet and go to her house boyo...bonus points if you get the dog to lick peanut butter off your sack after
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:26 AM
5

She probably just can’t ditch the dog. If you think you can smash then go. TRP can’t make every decision for you, stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:23 AM
6

Big ups for going out alone. Hard for a lot of guys including myself to step out of their comfort zone like that. Sounds like you ran some decent game just didn’t have a plan once the opportunity presented itself. If you get the “where are your friends” line I always say something like.. “I ditched them and decided to go on my own adventure” Shows you go your own way, super alpha
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:20 AM
8

Soft next, she sounds crazy and triple texting after you don’t go into a club with her is a major red flag. If she’s this bad before you fuck her down imagine what it’s like after
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:17 AM
6

Soft next potential boss Spin more jobs
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:14 AM
24

Have her bring the dog...if you can’t fuck her you can always fuck the dog
/r/askTRP19/10/19 01:12 AM
8

Club game is more how you look and body language than anything else. Hard to run game in a dark room with loud music
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:15 PM
4

Who says you can’t do anal, freaky stuff, etc the first time? It sets the tone for future encounters. I like to give her a taste of the whole menu first time out, then scale it back as things progress and add/subtract things based on her behavior and my mood.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:30 PM
4

Let’s try to unravel this shall we? You’re using RP tactics to achieve a BP goal (LTR) You’re trying to negotiate attraction by convincing these girls to leave their LDR’s instead of build attraction. AWALT, just escalate, if they use the BF excuse it’s because a disparity of SMV, many girls in LDR’s would be all over Chad Thundercock’s knob because Chad doesn’t ask/care if she has a man or not. How about another read through the sidebar this weekend to get your head straight
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:24 PM
8

Dating site where you “match” (tinder, hinge) “I had a feeling we would match” Dating site where you send a message “Hey, we’re both here to meet someone fun, right? Well you look like a lot of fun, so I think it would be silly if we didn’t talk at least once” Dating site where you can see if they viewed your page “Saw you looked at my page, too afraid to send the first message? I promise I won’t bite...unless you ask ;P” Those are a few of my go-to’s If you’re gaming in the Miami metro area ple…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:17 PM
45

ight imma head out
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:29 PM
14

“Frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn”
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:14 PM
2

Russian twists are the best all around core exercise. Focus on more dynamic twisting movements vs contracting movements for overall strength and stability. Go lighter on your compound lifts for a month or two until your core is where it needs to be
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:55 PM
1

DUDE YOU’RE SO RIGHT! Apparently there’s local MILF’s in my area trying to fuck RIGHT NOW!
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:50 PM
7

Posted this yesterday. When asked if you’re seeing other women... “Only when my eyes are open” then change the topic
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:47 PM
7

2/10 thread. Justifications: Misleading Title Non TRP related Unlikely OP read sidebar
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:57 AM
4

If you think about it even “the talk” is just a type of shit test...proceed accordingly
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:05 AM
6

Classic shit test. “Are you seeing other women?” Only when my eyes are open. “I’m tired of this going nowhere” We’re going to (next date location) on Friday, what are you talking about? Then change the topic.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:53 AM
13

Kiss just enough to make her want more. Try to get her from isolated spot to a place where you can seal the deal ASAP “I just remembered I have something to do in the morning, let’s have one more drink at my/your place before we call it a night” Once you’re there the real escalation happens.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:58 PM
1

My go to is “I’m open to anything with the right person” Then I go back to qualifying them (career, logistics, etc)
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:55 PM
5

There’s two theories to this. Giving your number will filter out low to medium interest women leaving only high interest ones. The drawback is you’ll get much lower response rates. Asking for the number shows confidence because you’re leading the interaction. You’re more likely to get responses and at the end of the day you’re just trying to set up a date anyway so you’ll get more chances to escalate, but also will waste more time on shitty low interest, LJBF dates too. If you’re high SMV give y…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:45 PM
3

You want the board to spoon feed you information when you should be seeking it yourself. A cornerstone of TRP is personal accountability, by admitting the sidebar is “too long” shows you have a long way to go in taking responsibility. If you’re not having success with women then take some time off of approaching and take the time to understand what TRP is all about. First step is to digest the sidebar and have a full understanding.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:36 PM
1

You want the board to spoon feed you information when you should be seeking it yourself. A cornerstone of TRP is personal accountability, by admitting the sidebar is “too long” shows you have a long way to go in taking responsibility. If you’re not having success with women then take some time off of approaching and take the time to understand what TRP is all about. First step is to digest the sidebar and have a full understanding.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:36 PM
3

Only if you get a cut
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:36 PM
5

Another quality thread by negrow123. Have you read the sidebar? You post about every interaction with every female you have and it always ends the same way...I was too scared to ask for her phone number/IG Then you come here asking what you did wrong.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:32 PM
11

Going after a married woman is ultimately your call but seems like there were some IOI’s. When in doubt escalate and find out.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:25 AM
2

In the time you’re spending trying to hamster the fact the records clerk at your old school didn’t throw herself at you for giving her probably the worst conversation she’s had all week, you could have spent reading the sidebar and improving your game. But if your reading comprehension is as bad as your writing skills I doubt much will come of it. Good day sir.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:20 AM
2

If you read and fully understood the sidebar you’d know
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:07 AM
2

Is this a humble brag thread or are you seriously considering digging in the trash for an ex who sleeps with other men in your house?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:04 AM
2

Long story long. You didn’t number close or escalate. Read the sidebar you’re not holding any sort of frame and coming across as socially awkward.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:01 AM
3

Don’t you need to be like 25 to rent a car?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:59 AM
7

Don’t ever ask for sex, it’s a quick way to get her ASD to kick in...if you really want to fuck in a broom closet that bad, take her by the hand, lead her in there. If she pulls back say something like “wouldn’t it be hot if we made out in there” that way she can hamster the fact that one thing led to another and you ended up fucking in a broom closet.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:59 AM
10

As a rule of thumb I always confirm morning of the plan with a simple text. “Hey looking forward to seeing you later”
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:57 PM
2

Need more info. If it’s your second time meeting her did you escalate, kino, kiss? I’d say stick with the original plan so it doesn’t look like you’re bending backwards to see her.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:06 AM
45

I’m not a lawyer but these are steps you should follow starting immediately. Don’t talk to anybody in your company, the girl, really anybody about the case. If this isn’t a throwaway account consider deleting the post once you get the info you’re after. Lawyer up...you already lost your job, if she made this complaint to the company this may be the first step in getting the event documented so she can sue the company and/or bring criminal charges against you. Don’t apologize, this can be interpr…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:06 PM
1

Don’t hit on a girl with her man around unless you’re looking for a fight. And hitting on a girl you know has a bf is a scumbag move regardless. Do you.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:01 PM
1

Ignoring the fact you have severe oneitis after LJBF if you want a shot this is how you should do it. Go out for drinks with her 1 on 1 and escalate, if you get LJBF again hard next. Don’t be an orbiter
/r/askTRP11/10/19 08:54 PM
6

Find better friends. Surround yourself with people you want to be not used to be.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:37 PM
5

AWALT wether they’re in college or cougars. Read this: https://www.scribd.com/doc/202670438/Kino-Escalation-Ladder-2nd-Edition-Vin-DiCarlo
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:36 PM
3

You should have bounced on your own as soon as she said she was on her period
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:33 PM
3

Who cares she’s a plate
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:25 PM
1

Go with her but this time escalate. Required Reading: DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:20 PM
1

Sounds like more of an exclusive FWB arrangement than an LTR. Proceed accordingly.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:18 PM
5

If you’re that uncomfortable meeting her family then you’re probably not as invested in the relationship as you thought you were. It’s honestly your call to make but avoiding meeting the family will be the beginning of the end. If you plan on a future with the girl then suck it up and go.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:51 PM
74

Assuming you don’t need the extra money, getting a part time job to dread your wife of 34 years seems a bit extreme
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 06:48 PM
10

It’s a double edged sword.. You’re guaranteed to get lower response rates but the ones that do reach out are high interest and easier to game. Ride with it and see how it works for you.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:20 PM
1

I use a similar opener and my follow up to the “why?” “We clearly both have great taste” Then I’ll get into qualifying them by asking about their career or where they live.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:20 PM
1

If you think it’s mental talk to a therapist, there’s ones who specialize in ED, also it’s insanely easy to get viagra these days, you don’t even need to visit a doctor you can do it all over the internet. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:32 PM
1

If she’s gonna be a plate no need to get that deep into your personal story. One of my plates doesn’t even know what I do for a living. Just recognize a comfort test which will likely be framed by her asking you to open up about yourself. The answer should be like a woman’s skirt “long enough to cover the topic but short enough to keep it interesting” Frame everything you’re doing as positive and part of your journey. Talk about your time in the military, accolades, future goals, etc. But again …
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:26 PM
2

Good job on getting back in the game! Keep texts short and sweet if you’re just planning on plating her. Logistics only, then one on the morning to confirm. If she texts you to make small talk before that wait a couple hours to text back, let her think you’re busy. This shouldn’t distract you from talking to other women, women can sense if a guy is fucking or not so use this to your advantage as well as your newfound confidence to get more girls...because if you have just one plate it’s not real…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:53 PM
9

Say you want your money back. Break their kneecaps if they can’t pay.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:11 AM
8

Or your money back
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:07 AM
1

I never suggested CrossFit is better for achieving size than bodybuilding but look at a top tier natty BB and look at an elite crossfitter and you’ll notice they will have similar size, only one has way more athletic ability than the other.. Just something to consider
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:07 AM
1

That’s probably the biggest misconception about CrossFit. Going hard in every session whether it’s going for a 1rm every training day or doing 30 clean and jerks for time every workout is bad for the body and progression. A good gym will program progressive overload and a good coach will make sure the athletes master form before even attempting a WOD (foundations/ beginners course). Then they’ll make sure they’re working at a manageable weight to get the intended stimulus of the workout before l…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:05 AM
0

It’s all about the coaches in regards to the movements...a good coach will make sure you have enough strength/mobility before attempting the gymnastics movements everyone hates on. This is no different than the washed up bodybuilder giving bad advice at LA Fitness. And CrossFit in its essence is for everyone because workouts are intimately scalable...can’t do a muscle up? Do pull-ups, can’t do those? Do ring rows. The goal is to train to master the movements by building strength and coordination…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:00 AM
1

Good luck with your fitness goals in 2019-2020
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:56 AM
10

Looks + Status + Game = SMV Hard to pull with 1 Easy to pull with 2 Guaranteed to pull with 3 To answer your question it’s roughly 33.3%
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:52 AM
-1

People in this sub hate it but Crossfit is IMO the best training method around. A good box will program, strength (for gains), conditioning (for endurance in bed), mobility (for better flexibility in bed) You’ll put on size, won’t be out of breath after climbing a flight of stairs, and have your plates in awe at the angles you’re able to hit at because of your flexibility. Give it a shot
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:00 AM
7

Why are you bantering on dating apps? Follow the formula: Greet “I had a feeling we’d match” Small rapport build using assumptions “let me guess you do X for a living” Logistics “so you live in X city?” If logistics make sense go for a date/number close “I’m going to be direct, I have a good feeling about you, let’s meet and see if I’m right, is Thursday or Friday better for you?” This shouldn’t take any more than 5-7 messages on your part Source: I’m on my 3rd lay in the last 6 weeks with my 4t…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:26 PM
1

A lot of mixed responses here. Tough call might just flip a coin on this one
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:57 PM
0

I’m in the top 10% of my gym fitness and aesthetics wise so that won’t be a problem. Isn’t it dread for her to see me interact with all the girls at the gym I regularly talk to? My Gym is a big community so I’m tight with most of the hot girls there.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:01 AM
2

Have fun curling in the squat rack at LA Fitness brosephina
/r/askTRP08/10/19 02:58 AM
1

Well it’s CrossFit so the workouts are scaled to the ability of the athlete so we’d likely be doing the same or similar movements with different weights. Wasn’t looking for this to be an ongoing thing maybe 1x a week on partner workout days. Our schedules (fortunately) wouldn’t allow for us to workout together daily which would suck
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:27 AM
3

Discovered TRP last week Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:22 AM
2

Basically no winter, avg day in January is sunny 75 degrees during the day 65 at night. Barely rains in the winter sunny most days. It’s also green all year long, trees never lose their leaves (unless the wind blows them off in a hurricane) palm trees make me happy and they’re literally everywhere. Also HBB’s like crazy here, I find it easier to pull here, though I did pull a good bit in NYC as well, women are just psycho liberal types there, more international women in Miami, 50% of my pulls he…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:25 PM
1

Move somewhere that doesn’t have a winter. I was a miserable fuck living in NJ/NYC... living in Miami changed everything.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:12 PM
1

You still have to lead and take initiative. Asking a girl for her schedule never works unless she’s extremely interested. Stick to the script “Hey I’m going to X at Y o’clock, you should join me”
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:59 PM
1

A girl wouldn’t leave a relationship without something already lined up...you should know better than this
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:42 PM
3

All my plates and exes have seen me with and without glasses..they all like the glasses more, just find frames that work with your face shape
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:37 PM
1

Thirst isn’t the issue here but the point taken, I cancel tomorrow and tell her it’s better to meet when she has someone watching her kid next week.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:45 PM
-1

Good thing you read the whole post.. Where did I say I was buying anything? The plan was going to the beach if I’m not too tired after my conditioning session tomorrow
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:25 PM
8

I have a bit of a formula that has yielded me more success than a random approach. Always open first, typically within 15mins to an hour of matching “I had a feeling we’d match” Make an assumption based on her page (career, interests, school, etc.) “You go to school huh? My friend told me all the girls from there wild, is that true?” “You’re a lawyer? I heard outside of the courtroom lawyers like to party and have lots of fun, this sound like you?” If there’s any interest she’ll go along with it…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 11:18 PM
9

She needs to back so Big Daddy Thundercock can take her to poundtown with a full stomach on your dime. Making out is like a handshake to thots, if she had that high interest she wouldn’t set a curfew for herself. Remember chicks make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. Soft next.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:59 PM
13

Ever think that maybe she just can’t see you til 8? Being RP is not throwing a tantrum because the girl wants to reschedule for an hour later and assuming every time there’s pushback it’s a shit test. My advice: Show up at 8:15
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:03 PM
2

DM me
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:43 PM
1

I live in Miami, barely any women living here are from here. My last few plates were all foreigners. My advice...AWALT. Game as normal, maybe dumb down your words in accordance with how much English they speak but that’s about the only change I make.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:36 PM
16

Here’s your RP advice... Soft next, work on yourself, if she comes back around make sure it’s on your terms not hers. RP isn’t about fighting for her, it’s about MGTOW and you’re clearly trying to go her way, so fix that.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:34 PM
5

They lost their emotional/financial support system and they’re upset about it. Not rocket science.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:10 PM
14

Confidence comes from within. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:05 PM
26

She’s your ex who cares. This reeks of oneitis...read the sidebar, hit the gym, talk to other women, and move on with your life and stop worrying about your ex’s reaction to the breakup
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:18 PM
14

I mean the girl is taking a bus to your house, and it’s like 15 minutes I’d say no big deal. But then again I live in Miami and 15 minutes late is considered on time here so maybe my opinion is skewed
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:16 PM
8

You should troll somewhere else..
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:12 PM
54

Classic shit test. Respond accordingly. “He looks great, you should totally date him” Delivery is key on that one, say it nonchalantly like it doesn’t bother you...because it shouldn’t.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:36 PM
5

Bro AWALT don’t put them on a pedestal. Talk to a 9 the same way you would talk to a 4, or a child for that matter.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:47 AM
3

I’ve always had good luck at Starbucks and grocery stores. While I’m not suggesting you over analyze it you can tell a lot about a girl by what she has in her shopping cart.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:43 PM
2

Find a car dealership, they’ll hire anyone with a pulse who can pass a drug test to sell cars. You’ll make less than 15 an hour for your first month or two until you get the hang of it then the sky is the limit, a good salesman will make $10k USD per month. A bonus, it’s a RP kind of job where all the principals we drill and preach daily are used and it’s a great way to sharpen your social skills Edit: Really any sales job will be a good fit considering you have a degree. Source: I used to be a …
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:33 PM
1

29...this is not prescribed by a doctor
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:43 AM
1

Already got Clomid/Nolva/Letrozole for 4 weeks after
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:42 AM
1

The only reason I could even remotely see bringing it up is if you’re questioned about it in person like “you look bigger/more muscular in your photos” Even then I’d treat it like a shit test and proceed accordingly.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:10 AM
2

If she doesn’t care why should you?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:03 AM
7

Sounds like you played it as good as you could have if she was talking like that. She sees you as high SMV and her ASD was kicking in. Leave her alone for a couple days and plan something else, preferably a date at yours or her place to cook and watch a movie.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:47 AM
1

Don’t worry about other people finding out, if you really are spinning 4 plates to begin with. If you’re laying quality pipe you want those rumors going around anyway. Story time: A decade ago in my freshman year of college I was at a small regional campus of the school with only a couple hundred resident students, I smashed 2 girls in the first week, rumor got out I was a “player” and I ended up smashing my 3rd that week who was the hottest girl in the freshman floors who had a bf and showed no…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:45 AM
2

Do you want sympathy from women? You shouldn’t. So don’t bring it up.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:23 AM
3

It’s all about painting a picture.. Once I secure a date it’s business as usual. Meet out for a drink, kino escalate, one more drink at my place, seal the deal.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:49 PM
2

The indirectly sexual bio I think helps too. Mine is a quote from the late Anthony Bourdain. “Your body is not a temple, it’s an amusement park. Enjoy the ride”
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:38 PM
7

Try this next time.. Her: corny opener You: Can I be direct with you? Her: Sure You: How would you like to be wined and dined and romanced like a princess, then passionately pounded like a bad girl? It sounds ridiculous but I’ve banged 3 women off tinder/bumble using that opener. It sets the tone early, and since you’re just looking to smash it’ll weed out the girls looking for something more serious.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:39 AM
11

Can confirm. Added a shirtless photo and matches have gone up at least 50% with a higher conversion rate. I’m not even shredded or anything I’m athletic at around 15% bf
/r/askTRP27/09/19 08:57 PM
3

The size of your schlong is insignificant if she’s attracted to you
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:53 PM
8

I file single moms into the “plate don’t date” category
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:50 PM
22

You have my permission to fuck an ugly chick.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:22 PM
9

No, It’s better being a 9/10 voluptuous girl.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:40 PM
1

5th date without sex? Welcome to the friend zone
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:38 PM
1

Slow down your interactions, the biggest mistake I made in the beginning was rushing the interaction because I was too nervous and too focused on the number close and not focused on my frame and composure and observing her behavior and reactions. If you’re funny and interesting, and she’s giving you ioi’s and shit tests that you pass, then suggest meeting later on and ask the the number like its natural.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:14 PM
1

Yes I Day game and one of the biggest parts is realizing when they’re low interest so you can cut your losses and not waste your time. From the looks of it you made her nervous and she froze. Put yourself in her shoes and think about the interaction, we’re you fun, entertaining, interesting, adding value to the moment? If not then you have your answer.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:07 PM
7

If you talked to her in the same manner as you wrote this post I can totally understand why she didn’t give you her number.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:54 AM
2

Love this. Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:21 PM
0

My communication is apparently as bad as your reading comprehension. I’m asking if I should be vague I’m canceling or offer a reason. Hopefully that clarifies things for you.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:17 PM
1

I like to give 2 options as opposed to asking when the girl is free. Ex. “Let’s do something this week, is tuesday or thursday better for you?” Shows that you don’t have open availability, but still gives them a choice
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:09 AM
3

Oh well if that’s the case then do things and if you can’t find any I’m sure there’s stuff Edit: Ok I’ll be serious.. Museums are always fun, I like art museums because you can find sexual innuendos to ply off of, if where you’re going is scenic maybe hiking or walking in the park, if you’re going where there’s water you can rent paddle boards or kayaks. Honestly knowing where you’re going would be a huge help.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:05 AM
4

Hi TRP, I’m going somewhere and looking for things to do when I’m there, thanks. That’s what this post sounds like.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:09 AM
10

In for this
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:42 PM
2

I was only planning to re-plate but the overwhelming response is that I’m wasting my time...I’ll just leave it alone
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:06 PM
1

I’m trying to re-plate not re-LTR
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:49 PM
1

The difference is we won’t be exclusive. And I won’t be as emotionally invested.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:46 PM
1

She checks a lot of boxes for me, blond, petite, does CrossFit, fake boobs, we have history together.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:45 PM
1

What are you hoping to get out of this? A plate? It will be emotionally difficult without rock solid frame. This exactly. I’ve matured and re-discovered TRP since the breakup, It would be strictly casual with rules spoken about upfront, our sexual chemistry was the whole reason she was dating a guy 17 years younger than her to begin with. What's wrong with your current situation that would make you want to text her? Nothing really, I’m just into older women and we had great sex. One of my curren…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:43 PM
1

Even if she’s not cheating, she definitely knows whose up next...keep that in mind
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:48 AM
2

Since you asked for an opener my go to is “I had a feeling we’d match” I found that opener on the sub a while back. I usually try to at least build some sort of rapport by making assumptions based on their work/school. Example.. “My friend said all the girls who go to insert school are wild party animals. Or “My lawyer friend said most lawyers put up a professional front but are pretty scandalous behind closed doors, is this true?” If she starts asking you questions, becoming interested in you, …
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:17 AM
4

You didn’t handle it poorly. The community would probably say either Agree & Amplify “of course I do this with every girl, you haven’t seen my ads for this bed and breakfast?!” Or ignore and change the topic which you said you did. She’s having buyers remorse but she’ll probably come around, if not you’re still working on yourself, and talking to other women so where’s the loss?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:08 PM
1

That’s your call, but by the looks of it she probably won’t. Just move on.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:05 PM
2

Oneitis. Move on, talk to other women. Good job getting out there, learn from your mistakes and do better next time.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:31 PM
71

Good for you standing up for yourself. Delete her number and start talking to other women
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:21 PM
2

Like I mentioned in the post...online dating is meant to supplement other forms of meeting women. Same way car dealerships have showrooms (in-person sales), and websites (online lead gen)
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:47 AM
1

I’m not worried about openers just thought I’d share some that have worked for me since a lot of people have been asking in threads recently.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:46 AM
-1

Not being overly braggadocios about how much money you make/have, how much status or wealth you’ve accumulated. You let it speak for itself. A good example would be instead of saying “I have a $25,000 watch” You would say “You have no idea how hard it is to find someone to fix a Rolex” I’m sure there’s better examples but that’s what popped into my head
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:38 PM
3

Move on, talk to other women. If she wanted to talk about it later she wouldn’t have put you on ice for a week
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:33 PM
2

Second this. Sales is an intrinsically RP profession and if you’re good you’ll make enough money to not need a side hustle. There’s a lot of carryover from RP theory to sales. Things like outcome neutrality, abundance mindset, holding frame, etc.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:48 PM
2

You’ll know it’s over when it’s no longer a topic of conversation. Move on and live your life...as you said nothing happened
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:44 PM
3

It’s been said several times but if you’re telling the truth and nothing happened, then move on with your life, don’t talk about the issue when pressed about it, soft next all parties involved until this blows over, or forever...whichever happens first.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:34 AM
6

A good way in is to speak in a low confident voice, almost softer than you normally would intentionally so she doesn’t hear you. Then when she says she can’t hear you, put your hand firmly on her waist and lean into her ear and tell her what you were saying. That should get you/her comfortable being closer and touching, after that if she’s receptive to it, leave your hand on her, maybe move it to her thigh. That’s the beat I could explain it over text, maybe there’s a better writer that can desc…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:24 AM
2

I found the unemployed guy in the thread 😂
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:20 AM
2

How close do you live to your neighbors? I’d be PISSED if my neighbor was throwing weights around. Besides that it’s a badass idea and I’m low key jealous
/r/askTRP19/09/19 08:10 PM
2

Literally anywhere. The grocery store, the library, the coffee shop, on the street, in traffic, the bus stop, the mall. Starting to get the point? Basically anywhere but the men’s room there’s bound to be women.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:58 PM
4

Knowing what you know now should be enough for you to hold your frame. She’s manipulating you and you know it. Move on, talk to other women, get over her.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:04 PM
3

Usually I start with asking them to come over
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:20 PM
2

It means she’s not trying to trip over or bump into something.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:11 AM
1

I don’t think any doctor can or would give a diagnosis over the Internet. If you want a second opinion take your results to another endocrinologist
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:54 AM
3

There’s this dude @smashwerx on Instagram that has a bunch of content on how to relieve pain and impingements. Might be worth a look
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:20 PM
5

I prefer to wait until the girl brings it up. If you’re high SMV the conversation is inevitable.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:18 PM
2

Female doctor obviously trying to cuck you into soyboy status... But honestly you’re asking for medical advice on a self-improvement sub, did you think you were going to get a serious answer?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:17 PM
7

That was a pitiful read, and it sounds like you want sympathy more than actual advice. Why don’t you just carry yourself as if the company wasn’t high SMV women...or better yet work on yourself to raise your SMV
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:52 PM
2

If you don’t LTR her then why is it even your business?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:29 PM
2

You’re existing entirely in her frame and she sees it. I wouldn’t be surprised to find out she’s out with men when she says she’s out with her “work friends” Best you can do is work on yourself and start acting alpha. May be too little too late but it can’t hurt to try.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:24 PM
2

29y/o here, last 2 gf’s were 41 and 45 respectively As long as you can overcome the age objection you’re basically in. Approach like you would any other. They might be into more conventional “old school” ways like talking on the phone, wanting you to hold the door so be prepared for that.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:53 PM
9

If you’re addiction is THAT bad strangers on the internet are not going to be a substitute for professional help
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:10 PM
3

There’s nothing arrogant about standing up for yourself. If anything clap back a little and shit test them. Professionally of course.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:09 PM
4

How would you react if a 9 y/o shit tested you? Think about that next time they do it. If you’re not interested then make it clear you don’t take them seriously. Eventually it’ll stop.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:49 PM
1

Only you’ll know the right time. You always have the option of downgrading her to a plate. But that’s tricky if you or her get too attached. It’s up to you. Remember this relationship is on your terms, not hers, and proceed accordingly.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:45 PM
2

Flipping items you get for cheap/free on Craigslist is a decent way to make some side money. Gary Vaynerchuk has a bunch of content on how to successfully do this. I think the hashtag is #fliplife
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:31 PM
7

Only text to for logistics and keep the small talk to a minimum. The 3 to 1 rule is also something you should consider...for every 3 words she texts you reply with one (roughly)
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:06 PM
4

How much do you weigh? 1500-2000 Cals a day is not a whole lot of food bruh
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:46 AM
5

It seems like you already know what you want. Maybe pull back a bit on the LTR, depending on your moral code you may want to start chatting some females at your school and start lining up prospective plates. When girls move to a big city they tend to want to “explore” aka ride the carousel of strange dicks they previously didn’t have access to. The sooner you mentally withdraw and begin plating other chicks the easier the breakup will be on you.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:40 AM
1

If you’re looking for an echo chamber this probably isn’t the right sub for you. We give credit where credit is due, and we tell you where you’re missing the mark. If you were doing such a great job to begin with you wouldn’t be asking for validation for what you’re doing wrong on this sub, would you?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:27 AM
1

If you’re “talking with them” and not going anywhere in the conversation then you have a problem. Anybody could talk with women but if you’re not escalating then you do have a problem. Own up to it and fix it.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 08:07 PM
1

You’re starting off on the right foot. Focus on yourself, lifting, nutrition, general health. While you’re doing that read everything in the sidebar. Not just skim it. Actually read it, this should take a few days because you want to actually let the text sink in. Once you have a good grasp about what TRP is all about start approaching, everyone finds what works best for them. For some it’s social circle, for some it’s nightclubs/bars which you’re too young for I’m assuming, for some it’s the ma…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:50 PM
4

Your options: Get a nose job Stop complaining about things you can’t control and work on the aspects of your frame/game you can control. I doubt your nose would be an issue if you were a millionaire who looked like Zeus
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:45 PM
1

Sounds like you’re trying to cover for the fact you’re terrible at speaking to women by saying “well I don’t want to get them pregnant” Well good for you since you probably never will with that mindset
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:30 PM
0

Embrace the humor aspect as it’s a thing a lot of guys don’t have. The key is to still hold a confident frame and make tour intention known to whatever girl/set you’re talking to
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:22 PM
1

Embrace the humor aspect as it’s a thing a lot of guys don’t have. The key is to still hold a confident frame and make tour intention known to whatever girl/set you’re talking to
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:22 PM
1

But as for advice I’d just not pay the guy too much attention. Don’t try to put-do the guy it’ll make you look like you’re competing for the girls attention
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:21 PM
1

First off that was painful to read. But as for advice I’d just not pay the guy too much attention. Don’t try to put-do the guy it’ll make you look like you’re competing for the girls attention
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:20 PM
1

When she asked what streets you talk to women on I’d have said... Not just streets but avenues, and boulevards too. Still haven’t spoken to any women on the freeway but that’s because I can’t run that fast. I don’t know why but that’s the first response that popped into my head
/r/askTRP16/09/19 02:56 PM
-1

My source is almost double that, unless you have a reputable online source? Dm me if so
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:45 PM
1

My source is black market and is $150 for a 10 week cycle, and my gym membership ($175) just withdrew from my acct this week
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:43 PM
4

I train CrossFit 6x a week
/r/askTRP15/09/19 12:41 PM
6

I was talking more along the lines of Tribulus, ZMA, more “natural remedies”
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:04 AM
1

I don’t see this suggested enough, probably because of the stigma “bodybuilders” attribute to it but..I’ve had a ton of success with CrossFit. If you find (and can afford) a good box with good coaches you’ll have all 3 bases covered: Nutrition, Conditioning, weightlifting.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:39 AM
0

5-HTP and St John’s Wort always helped me get through some tough times and are natural. Noopept is available easily online and has a more potent anti-depressive effect on me. I currently take all 3 daily and I definitely notice a difference.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:34 AM
3

If you don’t use this pain as a catalyst for change you’ll regret it. Read the sidebar, start going to the gym, start approaching women, and most importantly never get this emotionally invested in another human being again
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:14 PM
1

If you’re in a 50/50 relationship like it should be then it’s just her turn and you’ll get the bill next time
/r/askTRP13/09/19 08:00 PM
2

Crossfitter here. Any exercise requiring a “violent hip extension” will help you tremendously in the sack. Examples: - Heavy RUSSIAN kettlebell swings (swing the bell to eye level not overhead) - Cleans - Snatches (hehe) - Glute Bridges Mobility is a huge part of being good in bed as well. Having tight hips in particular gives you less range of motion and power in bed. I’m posting from a phone so I can’t embed links in a pretty way but I spend 10-20 minutes daily working on the following stretch…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:55 PM
14

The algorithm intentionally says you have more matches than you actually do to keep you interested. They’re designed to be addicting and to get you to pay for premium services not to get you laid
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:22 PM
1

What are some ways to do that? I already go to the gym daily, on weekends I visit my mom but I live alone in a city I don’t really have any friends in outside the gym
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:23 PM
2

Ask them if the idea of owning whatever you're selling makes sense. If they say no ask what is holding them back.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:41 PM
1

Huge ups for doing that. I did it for a day and quit. People hold their political views so close to their identity they literally see it as you walking up on their property and telling them how to live their life. I think I got like $24 in donations on my first and only day. Then I quit and left with their t-shirt. They never paid me and said my hours covered the cost of the shirt. TLDR: I raised $24 dollars for the environment going door-to-door and all I got was a lousy t-shirt.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:08 PM
2

Let them say what they have to and soon what they have to say in your favor. In retail finance we have canned rebuttals for almost every objection. EDIT: Spelling
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 09:54 PM
3

Within the last 5 years. Copiers much like cars aren't widely sold on the internet. Most of the sale is in the service/toner packages that are sold alongside the machine. And as with like items that are financed the price is negotiable based on how the order is pieced together. Negotiating these contracts helps alot with reading people and knowing what features/services to sell in order to maximize the appeal of something common to an individual.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:13 AM
2

In college I used to dip. I was mainly beta with the occasional alpha moment. On 3 separate occasions with 3 separate girls I was looking to bang I got them to try dip. All 3 ended up banging soon thereafter. I thought of it as the ultimate compliance test as all of them negatively commented about it at one point or another before I convinced them to try it. On a side note, none of them enjoyed it and one who actually held it in for a respectable time got nauseous and compared it to drinking a b…
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