Why do I like commitment more than variety?

aWorldBornDead · 2019-09-26T13:26:49+00:00

I'm the same way. Nothing wrong with liking one girl. They always say RP is a toolbox and use what you want. Just don't be afraid to walk away and never tolerate disrespect.

vandaalen · 2019-09-26T11:50:51+00:00

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Jesusfeminist · 2019-09-26T11:48:59+00:00

You have no abundance. You need at least two girls so you can negotiate. Once you give only one girl the power of sex then there’s no negotiation, she got all the power

MattyAnon · 2019-09-26T11:51:43+00:00

Where is this stemming from?

Beta mentality. The belief that monogamy is possible, a good idea, encouraged, socially acceptable, etc.

I don’t enjoy falling for one girl yet don’t enjoy various pussy. I want a happy medium where I can like the girl and not have the infatuation progress.

I highly recommend ongoing relationships with 2-3 women at the same time.

TooManyThots · 2019-09-26T14:00:56+00:00

Studies show high IQ males prefer monogamy. You're probably high IQ high inhib which makes monogamy probably a more reliable mating strategy.

In other words, genetically you where born to be a beta bux, as most of us where. With the red pill you can chase monogamy but you will much better know the pitfalls.

ForeverNandrolone · 2019-09-26T14:56:18+00:00

Men have two reproduction strategies.

One is a quick hit and then run. Little chance of reward but also little investment so it’s a viable strategy.

The other strategy is getting a girl pregnant and then hanging around to provide for her so that it’s more likely that your progeny survive. This has greater chance of success but is also riskier for you since you are investing a lot.

Either one of these is valid. Apparently you have DNA that pushes you to pursue the second avenue. Imo, this is a perfectly acceptable choice for you to make.

Use your red pill knowledge to be aware that women are hypergamous and how to be alpha enough to create tingles so that it limits your chances of getting hurt.

I do something similar. I essentially have relationships with all of my plates, so I get variety and commitment. This can be a lot of work and may not be worth it to you. I’m older and don’t have to put a lot of time into my career and most of my plates are older and don’t require a lot of attention so it’s doable for me.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-09-26T17:05:51+00:00

Because it’s easier to be in a committed relationship than going through plates.

With plates, you are always on the hunt, always seeing if you can replace them, being ready for them to replace you, doing approaches etc.

Plates aren’t easy, but they are worth it.

McVaghunter · 2019-09-26T12:09:01+00:00

That's called being bluepilled.

Title	Why do I like commitment more than variety?
Author	Startlivingfornow
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	September 26, 2019 11:33 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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