After a long day of physically and mentally demanding work, it’s 8pm, your 1 year old kid has been crying 4 hours straight since you picked her up from kindergarten, and you just want to pass out in bed and reset, but you can’t yet because your family needs you.

How do you amused mastery, A&A when shit tested by your equally tired girlfriend for not doing this and that.

I do know that she test me like this because I’ve failed many of them in the past, and even though I improve and learn, I struggle getting into the playful cocky mood after a day of what I just explained.

I imagine most of you reading this are well familiar with these days, how do you tend to respond when tested? What mindset do you enter and how?