What bugs me is she is not the typical hot girl type where it would make sense logically why she would have an extensive sexual past (and therefor I would get more appropriate value), in fact she looks quite plain and dainty. She recently ended a FWB before going out with me (I learned this later), and I know she lost her virginity in HS around age 16. I do not know much else but she just had that one FWB and no other FWBs at the same time or at any other time prior (confirmed by a mutual guy friend of ours so not lying). So I am assuming maybe 4 other 1 night stands randomly, so around 5 people shes been with sexually. This number does not seem extreme objectively, and hence why I still am dating her now, but I still feel a little like a cuck for dating her, as well as a "captain save a hoe". I know for a fact shes not cheating on me (I have full access to her phone) and she seems like a different person now. Assume anywhere between 2-5 (if you want assume up to 10 for an extreme case) n-count, and I need this sub's advice:

  1. is 5 a large N-count for a girl?
  2. Does the N-count's significance change if the girl looks hot or not?
  3. If you felt a connection would N-count matter? If so at what level would you draw the line?
  4. Is it ok to ask how many she's been with? I know she may lie, but I feel as though I can verify through friends.
  5. Obviously women settle for older men, but at what point does a young girl settle? Is it even settling or am I just next in line currently?
  6. What would the sub do?

Thanks. Any help is appreciated.