Just a fair warning first, this will probably be all kinds of cringe.

A month ago i started talking to a hot girl on tinder, who had recently moved to my town. This is a small town so it's easy to look up people to know more about them. She's seemingly divorced, at 24, which means she married young and then it ended quickly. Her ex-husband is on some pics she has, and he looks like a proper chad tbh, so i think it's fair to say he was the one who ditched her. This girl was away on work for a month, but she randomly snapchatted me yesterday, saying she was out drinking. I was too, and i asked her to meet me. She had left the bar, she said, but i still met her at another bar, she was with a female friend. I sat down and talked to her, nice flowing convo, and i greeted her friend also. After like 5 mins, her friend wanted to go home, and asked the girl if she was gonna stay, in which she stood up and said "no, nice meeting you!". I was a bit gutted, thinking she wasn't impressed with me. She snapchatted me an hour later in bed, saying "it was really nice meeting you" and said she was going out next day (today). Tonight, none of my friends were seemingly going out, so i just drank some beer and watched a movie. She snapchatted me, first a vid of her being at a party, then another where she asked if i was out. I told her "none of my friends are going out, so i figured i would stay in". At the same time, a plate, who was also drinking, asked me if she could sleep with me. I said yes, since i figured if i wanted to get laid tonight, that would be my chance that night.

A friend of mine then randomly called me quite late, saying he was going out, and asked me to join. I decided to do it, hoping to meet the girl from tinder. We went to the same bar, i texted her saying i was out, but she didn't open it. I couldn't see her at the bar. We went to another bar, and i'm not sure if she was there. I saw someone who looked like her, but it was really crowded. I guess i pussied out a bit, not sure why. I also kept thinking that if she had previously been married to a chad, and that i would have no chance in my current state. The plate was also there, and i wasn't sure how to juggle both of them. So I ended up not approaching her and going home, knowing my plate would soon join me. She then opened the snap and said "come to X bar ;)", but i was already home then. I sent a snap back saying "i went home, was only going out for a beer and i didn't see you at the bar.. let's meet another time?". She opened this snap but made no reply. I was kinda drunk at this point, and i think i snapchatted her again saying "or not?" (cringe, desperate, i know..). She opened that one too, but no reply. Is she blowing me off because i didn't meet her, or could she just be busy partying and not care? Do i bother to text her again? I guess the ball is in her court, but maybe it doesn't count when drinking?