So last week I went to a party, girl came up right she initiated (I realize I need to initiate if I want to get top tier women, I'm working on it lol) and she kissed me and I sort of reciprocated. This lead to nothing.

I went to a bar club type thing kinda lame tbh but again same thing. Except when she was dancing on me I realized if my hands or at least one of my hands wasn't on her she would be grinding on me WAY harder than if I had my hands on her.

She tried to kiss and I made out for like a solid 10seconds but I said no not here you'll have to wait for that.

Girl gave me her phone to hold in my pocket I thought she wanted me to put my number in but it wasnt unlocked and I told her no I don't want to hold her phone.

We'll anyway she put her phone in my pocket and started dancing again except this time she kept grabbing my hands and tried to get me to put my hands down her pants.

Now I don't think being in the middle of a dancing thing fingerling this bitch below my smv is a good look so I just sort of grabbed her ass harder and teased her a bit.

Anyway she like dipped without her phone and later that night I got a call on it it was obvious she wanted to fuck but I was pretty drunk when I was with her and I know that she isn't like somebody I'd want to fuck most likely because she approached me.

Anyway my question is wtf is this shit this girl literally wanted me to finger her in the middle of a dance floor like wtf am I supposed to do? Should I have just approached a different girl who was more my smv or would you guys have just rode it out?

It was kinda a good look though I made a few new guy friends who were pretty cool