Long story short. Met this chick in the beginning of August and saw her almost every day for a month. She developed super hard feelings for me and wanted me to date her during the time. She then suddenly stopped texting and messaging me 3 weeks ago and claimed that we should just hookup from time to time and nothing more. Her reasoning was that some of the shit I was saying to her made her feel worse about herself. (I did fuck up a bit but generally she was being super sensitive and super insecure).
Anyways some times passes and we end up talking about it a few days ago. She then hit me up to chill the next day. We set up a date and she asked me what I wanted to do. I said lets go for food and drinks and then go back to your place to watch a movie and she said ya thats fine. Then a few days later (just now) she messages me saying '' I don't know if we should come watch a movie but we can go grab drinks or food if that's okay''. ''I just think that we should chill and see how it goes you know''.
Now this is a massive shit test ya? I know that a lot of guys come on this sub and ask about when they are going to meet a girl off tinder for example, that the girl says ''oh I dont do hookups'' that its just a shit test and they end up fucking them anyways. The difference with me is that me and her used to see each other a lot. Fucked a shit ton. Became emotionally invested in each other and then it all ended. And now she hit me up again?
How do I proceed with this? Obviously im gonna say yeah thats fine but how do I proceed when I chill with her? or is she trying to turn me into a beta orbiter?
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