Anyone else having this problem? I need to find more things to do.

I work in finance and gym 5 days a week. Basically bare minimum shit. I've played guitar for like 11 years and still play 2-3 hours a day but even that gets a bit much sometimes and I want more variety. I'm trying to start a band with a few dudes but it's slow and hard. I see friends on weekends sometimes but I'm getting over poisoning my body and mind with alcohol.

I'm sick of shitty online dating apps. I made profiles a few days ago on two apps and have 75 and 45 likes respectively with barely anyone I am even interested to speak to. I'm sick of going on dates with boring girls who fumble around questions of interests and basically admit their biggest hobbies are netflix and say they want to try new things, but you can see through their bullshit. And half the time they end up rejecting you anyway or sleep with you and you never hear from them again.

I want and need a higher purpose but I don't know what the fuck to do. I'm very musically inclined but I'm not really an intellectual type person, I feel better when using my body and being active whilst being disciplined to something. I'm thinking at least starting to learn martial arts. Any other ideas?