Met up with this girl last night around 10:30pm. She works as a photographer in a nightclub on saturdays, she had to work around 12am so we agreed to meet at a bar for a short first date, just two drinks. The logistics were pretty shit to begin with (no way to escalate to sex), but I was eating out in the city with my family anyways so I figured, why the hell not?

So, I met her outside the bar and we gave each other a kiss on the cheeck. We went inside and there was only one table left, it was really busy there. I wanted a table where we could sit next to each other, instead of facing each other. Would be easier to perform kino that way, oh well...

We're chatting, no awkward silences and I was trying to read her body language. She was leaning into me, smiling a lot and playing with her hair, bracelets and necklace, so I guess she was a bit nervous, which was cute. I was trying to come up with ways so we could touch each other. First we were talking about something, a trip she made and I asked her to show me pictures on her phone. When she showed her phone I held her hand which was holding the phone to get a better look, this was a start I guess.

Then we were talking about something but I was teasing her a bit, basically telling her there's no way that was true in a flirty way, so she said pinky promise and our hands touched (felt kinda gay doing a pinky promise not gonna lie) but it was some kind of kino I guess. Afterwards I asked her to roll up the sleeves of my shirt. I could perfectly do this on my own but wanted her to touch me a bit. During whole the date I was eye fucking her as well.

Time went by super fast and suddenly it was 23:45pm. She panicked a little because she had to be at work in 15 minutes and it was a 30 minute drive to the club where she works so she was gonna be late for work. My cocktail just arrived and it was expensive as fuck so no way I was gonna leave. Told her she should get going if she wants to make it to work. She said sorry and that it was fun seeing me. She grabbed for her wallet and gave me money for the drinks since I had to wait for the check. I said I understood and she gave me a kiss on the cheeck and left.

I have mixed feelings about the date. We haven't texted each other since the date. I don't want to come off as clingy. I feel like the date went really good but I wanted to kiss her at the end of the date, but yeah.. kinda lost track of time.

What should I do next time? How should I proceed from here? I'm interested in plating her.