I don't want to write a wall of text so I'll try to summarize Girl, ill call her broad was in the same classes. Mutual attraction but she has a boyfriend but always hid this and called him her "friend". I invite her out to a show, she brings us drinks (her boyfriend actually dropped her off). We drink at the show and hit bars after too. Another girl from a dating app tells me to come over, but broad sabotages it by taking my phone and texting some nonsense.

We leave the bar and go back to mine (shared house so there's a good amount of people hanging out in the living room). We're getting comfortable in my room and she drops "you're crushing on me arent you" to which I laugh at because I want to fuck her and haven't tried to hide that. She admits that she feels the same but she "feels bad for her boyfriend". I try to kiss her but only get cheek and she gets mad that I tried. I tell her to figure things out with her boyfriend. They almost went "open" in the past.

No contact for a week, she wants to talk in person, basically she says we should set boundaries. I go back to no contact because why would I hit her up?

She calls me drunk the following weekend but is too sauced for me to even consider dropping in, don't even know why she called, she was so drunk. Then we talk music the next day and she ghosts in the conversation.

This friday night I get a "sorry for going awol, can I call you rn?" text I tell her "I'm actually out, lets talk tomorrow." - I'm not going to run like a dog when I'm busy with friends.

She says "ok sure but im busy tomorrow soon though"

Should I wait it out or just take charge and tell her to come over tonight?

I know, oneitis and all that but this is a present opportunity and challenge that I just want to get out of the way. Half of me thinks she just wants attention, but the other half thinks shes wants dick