Hi all,

Just struggling with a few things in my life and need some general guidance. Got nothing to lose.

I moved to a different city in Canada 3 years ago and struggling socially and with career. Recently out of a relationship and the light switch effect came to me when she left my ass needing to "find herself" before branch swinging. Realized how I don't have my shit together and it affected relationship. I have no strong friendships atm. Only people I hung out with were coworkers wasn't well liked in group as a whole. Started a new job and have lost contact with these people. I have been attending local meetups and talking to people at open mics.

Directionless with career. I have a undergrad in business but no business experience. I have worked in low wage job in security recently and now driving a shuttle bus (work alone but pay is better). I find law enforcement to be appealing but have been deferred for two years. Not sure what work I would find to be engaging and pays well. Besides getting laid (and even that) girls are low on priority. I just need a strong foundation or sense of direction.

I have read Rational Male, NMMNG, practical female psychology, Been listening to Rstone's videos and have been reading the content on here everyday since. Almost done reading book of pook and day bang by Roosh. I am realizing that I have little sense of direction and mission that I have been working towards.

Currently I live alone, work alone, and gym alone. I lift 4-5 days a week (5'10 slim, 158lbs), started BJJ 3 weeks ago and do that 2-3 times a week. Passionate with playing guitar and did first open mic. I have been talking to more people when I have the chance.

Goals: Gain 17lbs, find a higher paying more engaging job, buy a dodge charger, compete in BJJ, move to a better end of town. I realize opportunity is out there just don't know where to begin.

Any help is appreciated even the cold hard truth. Or should I just I just get back to the sidebar?

Cheers,