Have any of y’all achieved or witnessed a man going from pretty boy to hyper-masculine?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-14T19:08:29+00:00

Just own your look and keep getting stronger and better. Looking pretty doesn’t stop you from being that guy that can kill someone that gets in his way. One thing that your idols have in common is that they don’t go out of their way to look a certain way for other people.

RedSkeller · 2019-10-14T19:26:57+00:00

We're pretty much the same stats except I'm probably older than you by a good amount. What are you trying to accomplish in terms of the women you're pulling? I've had more than enough success with my features without trying to be something I'm not. It's all about highlighting your features and making the best of what you have rather than trying to change your genetics.

RaidenDark · 2019-10-14T19:29:24+00:00

Usually "pretty boy" just means hot but skinny. Eat more, lift more. I used to be skinny, bulked the fuck out when I did construction for a while.

readingblastoise · 2019-10-14T21:32:58+00:00

I was 6'1, 170lbs, 10% body fat when I was 18. Was cute/pretty boy etc. Now, I'm 23 and 235lbs at 15% body fat with 18" arms.

And I was raised by a woman, so I've always had a chip on my shoulder about not being masculine enough, but through years of persistent self education, dating experience and self improvement I've transformed my life. Still not where I want to be, but my physique is ok, I've had a pretty good sex life, I run my own business, and I've grown into giving way less fucks about what most people think. You should care about 1/100, maybe 1/10,000 people's opinions. People like Warren Buffett, Bill Gates or Elon Musk etc.

I wish I would have familiarized myself with evolutionary psychology sooner. What is biologically/subconsciously perceived as masculine is often far from what media (movies, magazines and television) depicts. Evolutionary psychology/biology teaches us about the mechanisms in our brain/body that are responsible for our behavior--things that occur at a subconscious level.

here's a paradigm shifting resource regarding evolutionary psychology/biology of attraction:
>> https://youtu.be/uQ6f-bzRhIM

fatbloop · 2019-10-15T14:01:57+00:00

Own your shit. Plenty of 18-21 girls love that pretty boy/boy band look.

If you want respect from men then bulk up a bit, and sort out your body language and voice tonality, and have solid frame.

As you get older you'll get that masculine look that you want. Look at Zac Efron now. He doesn't have that boy band look anymore since he's older and massively bulked up. Maybe grow a beard or stubble if you're clean shaven. But for now, I'd say just capitalize on your strengths.

spider_1337 · 2019-10-14T21:11:13+00:00

I guess i fit your description. I think i look a bit more masculine mainly due to lifting. My facial hair also gives me a bit of a rough look sometimes (or so ive been told). I would say the best way to achieve a "hyper masculine look" would be to lift and gain as much muscle mass as possible.

Title	Have any of y’all achieved or witnessed a man going from pretty boy to hyper-masculine?
Author	ImSchmack
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	October 14, 2019 7:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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