| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 44 | Breakup, need new plan of action | Blue Pill Example | vintageBiscuit | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 09:46 AM |
| 17 | Validation and connection seeking behaviour | Blue Pill Example | vintageBiscuit | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 04:24 PM |
| 2 | My emotions are stopping me from growing | vintageBiscuit | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 10:21 AM | |
| 1 | Help with shit test. | vintageBiscuit | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 06:49 AM | |
| 1 | Frame control and males | vintageBiscuit | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 02:45 PM | |
| 1 | How to approach LTR material? | vintageBiscuit | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:16 PM | |
| 1 | Single woman with dogs | vintageBiscuit | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Validation and connection seeking behaviourIdk either I should distant myself and go no contact until she initiates or just contact her to setup a date later this week. I guess it might be burned bridges at this point. Simply never had girl do 180 on emotional level and I did fuck her good. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 10:32 PM |
| -1 | Validation and connection seeking behaviourCheers, but thats not info I can work with that would help. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Validation and connection seeking behaviourTrue that it is taxing when you arrange meetings and get down if shes “busy”. I wonder why can’t I unemotionally plate her how I did other chicks. It is funny how if it was some new chick I would just plates her. But this one fucks my mind in to LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Exes.I think this point of view help a man to boost his ego and self worth. Which is good. Really, good! I also think that it’s not healthy in a long run. I might be wrong. Over last 4 years I can’t really tell that I had an healthy relationships with either ex of 3-4 years or plates. Plates do want to lock me down and physically grab when I leave. So only thing I remember is to do no harm as I have read in TRP years ago. However it’s unhealthy for both. I have no answer to this, maybe after therapy … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionNoone knows I cheated. Noone, but me and this forum. I don’t cry either about that. I do share my thoughts tho. You are right. Sex became really boring with plates recently. It was the most intense only with ex. As there was leas sex with her, I’d turn to plates. But eventually I liked less and less sex with plates. So I most likely have became needy with ex. Even tho she was forcing herself to so that with me, it was still good, for me. Not the best as both had feels. Even now after brake up, I… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | “Stages of Manipulation”; an excerpt from the book “Practical Female Psychology”Oh damn it. A girl lost attraction to me more or less using this pattern. Mens group ir a must to not fuckup again in the future. Lost 3 years like this… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionIt is basically production (sewing) of equipment. I am working on an online shop. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/23 07:01 AM |
| 2 | YOU ARE BEING LIED TO. The Content You See Here is Selectively Edited by SJWs to Prevent You From Taking The Red Pill.Idk man, i am not emotionally involved and dgaf. People have a fair point it is hard to navigate. I do agree with my exp, it awkward design. I wish it had reddit style navigation with simple design. Do whatever you want with this info. I have stuff to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/23 01:53 PM |
| 4 | YOU ARE BEING LIED TO. The Content You See Here is Selectively Edited by SJWs to Prevent You From Taking The Red Pill.I did try trp.red and I found it painful to navigate. It sounds like someone can’t just turn on backwards gear because work is already made. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/23 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionAntivax* you are right :) My life would be OK if I had financial freedom honestly and a place. I have jumped over some levels in Maslov’s hierarchy of needs I think. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionSounds good. Have done it 3 times already, sadly. Hard to identify THE mistake. It builds up and snaps when it is too late. It sounds simple but you get involved in life/work shit and you ignore that relationship is an another thing that require decent amount of energy and attention. At least for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI do like this idea. And i have no reason to disagree. But damn it’s an roller coaster. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI did read that in trp. I can not agree 100% that sensitivity and honesty, frame really keep relationship going. But so far it has an influence for sure. I might need a place in a city, but prices are over the top now. No idea how people are paying for it. I know trp claims have a place in the big city center, but even getting in to suburbs 20km away is a hustle money wise. Getting the frame back in sounds like I could use a mens group of some kind. All in all you are right, frame, idgaf attitud… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionIt might sound like it. I have nothing against them. My question was rather your close circle has an impact on your decisions. Because lets face it. Her best friend is a single mom. Like 30rs old with 0.5-1 year old baby. Why wont she try to use this situation and have an friend to supprt her once a week once my ex comes back to hometown. I might be digging too deep. Just i remember some trp shit from the past. It makes it sus. I might be wrong and just stupid tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionDidnt get it. Yes, good advices are posted. Working on basics. This a actually helps with some self reflection tho. Do agree. I might be late boomer. I have to admit my emotion process might be bit on the sensitive side. Childhood issues? I dig what you’re saying. Can’t do a thing about it at this moment. Indeed. Reading stoic and trp stuff is different than applying it. I had 3ltr of 3-4 years. I have not much feedback of how and where I fucked up. It might be a pattern. Might be different issu… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionCan’t agree more on investment. I do not act like that with any other girls. It’s (was) like main focus point of every single day. Lesson learned that THAT made her feel on the pedestal. Funny how my little brain recalls these terms from few years ago. I should have posted this after out first “brakeup” and asked for advice. Would have left the situation with more dignity or would just set myself on track from self betalization. I do not spend time with myself unless I work on a project (tinkeri… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/23 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionJust an attachment. As someone pointed out, I might be also afriad of loosing time/money investment. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI find them stupid and hard to work with. However there might be a point to max my looks and get a dress code that matches youth thingy. Would you explain why you want to see these numbers exactly? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionEven tho I do have some general knowledge, due to my life priorities (like some front-end, IT, network, radio, sales shit) I can only teach people how to get rid of people in more than 600meters and some other things here and there. I can also work in media production. Which is mostly freelance and there is poor market for it localy. I have no hard skill that office people need. I have no experience in the office life either. Will check our your sources. I guess for now I need no womanc, no monk… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionAs it sucks to agree with the idea of yours. That’s the way. No point of staying in suffering state. And it’s emotional roller coaster today, but that’s a good plan for starters. Need to fix sleep, food and force myself go to the gym regularly. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionTrue. I got stuck trying to fix unfixable. I am ashamed of myself I simply didn’t walk away when she showed low investment. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Breakup, need new plan of actionThats gold. Sorry to hear that we do face this. I was thinking I have no tools in my mindset to understand wtf is going on. It seems there is a pattern of some kind. I cant spend as much time reading trp as i did many moons ago. But there was something about girls with daddy issues. It was projected to me that there is some other issues rather than what I faced in my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionDue to personal achievements in some physical competitions, projects, my old and new ex’es - I no more have tier one friend circles. I do have battle buddies and people that would show up on demand. But I have noone to hangout, tell my troubles to. I guess its one of the reasons i betalized myself over the years. Eye opening actually. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Breakup, need new plan of actionExplain why tinder is such devil and flag rule. I’ve met my previous ex on tinder. I had shit job, wanted to go abroad for an job adventure and she left me. But she had very good father figure, sisters and a mother. I do envy quality of family they had. That was quality time and good example for me. I do follow trp agenda that some girls are bitches, I did meet them there. I poked a hole and never saw them again. Some were filling the gap after a breakup and getting back to their bfs after we fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 05:19 PM |
| -3 | Breakup, need new plan of actionTrue. These test were hard to notice due to blind nature of me. What are your steps you’d recommend? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI mean, I want to buy property for myself and have my own place. However, due to geopolitical situation my worry might be to take care of my unit (mil) with hopes my parents leave the country in time. You are right. I will dedicate more effort and time in my small business and might get side hustles to focus on money. I am not in a place I’d want to be in, as I remember women actually take me away from actually making an impact in my success. Good point. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionThat’s probably my mistake. It’s mixed feelings when you show your weakness to people they either value it or punish you without doing it directly. I will never know the answer either it was the case. It’s hard to admit, but indeed I might deserve better as she refuses to continue and put me through hoops. Gets me angry as I could don’t get involved in to trying winning her back by showing my care for her. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionAs I found some dislikes about trp, the main idea about self focus, money making, lifting, reading is gold. Thank you for doing a crash course of forgotten ideas | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Breakup, need new plan of actionSeems the same. It is awkward to compre the mindset of before the girl and after the girl. I guess the effort of going to the gym which is 20km away and trying to get proper amount of calories (even tho I have no appetite for a month) will eat up a lot of my time. Good point on reading. I tend to go down the rabbit hole in instagram seeking for “relationship advice” reels or facebook that is still filled with russia invading ukraine. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionHigher libido, or low self esteem, honestly can’t even give you a solid answer. Maybe I need that cozy feels? Is that boy-mother issues I should work on? That’s what evident in her reaction to my need to be sexual between each other constantly. I do agree, might have overdone with chasing pussy. I haven’t invested in TRP for over 2 years. But I might been(am) autistic and simply overdone something. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionCheating part was for the thrils of chasing. Self value. I might have confidence issues of that kind. Granted I was taking her for granted for too long. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 01:08 PM |
| 12 | Breakup, need new plan of actionGood, forgotten point. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 01:03 PM |
| 0 | Breakup, need new plan of actionTotally true. When picking a this girl out of like 7 i talked with back in that time. I was the prize. Some of them sent nudes, I was abroad and I still managed to talk them in to it. Once I came back 3 years ago I couls have LTR 2 or 3 of them. I chose this one. Thats very good point of yours. Fix my attitude and become the prize for myself again. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 01:01 PM |
| -11 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI did it for sex only. I kept spinning plates because of TRP. Even when in relationship. You are correct. It was actually the IDGAF that kept me going in to the world and working on projects. There was no issue if she wanted to do her own thing. I’d just spin a plate that evening. She knows nothing of my plates. Yes, I am sad because I was turning down plates because I decided to invest in to relationship that failed. The time has passed and I just said it’s ok to value this what I have and stop… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Breakup, need new plan of actionThat’s a fair point. I guess when you open up and claim to put in the effort, but you get back turned on you. That’s very, very legitimate point. Logically. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Breakup, need new plan of actionWell, she tried to LTR me first. I was to ignorant back then and kept spinning plates. I don’t know where are you from. Tinder is flaky, but there are same folks on both sides of the spectrum. She was not a whore, even tho I thought so for a long time until we kept digging bodycounts. What I am saying is that it’s not black and white. In my anger phase of trp i used to walk over woman, probably by damaging some of them on the way. It was fine as spinning plates was the only goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 12:46 PM |
| 20 | Breakup, need new plan of actionI guess anxious attachment might be the issue. Loneliness. Insecurity of rejection. I tend to go all in to things to become the best in the field or at least to become highly competent. And it’s just my habit is to fix (attack) this problem right now. In this case I have no influence here (to fix relationship). Stuck in a pattern. Elaborate please on the favor she made by selecting out. I am stuck around 69kg bw. Current squats are 80kg, bench 55kg, deadlifts 102.5kg (Currently working of confid… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Breakup, need new plan of actionEdit. I was busy and unavailable for years to her. I just snapped after her first try to brakeup. This is why I went soft mode for the better of relationship. Believe it or not, I am really good and some things in life and I do have a status in some common circles. But some triggers were pushed and it fucked me up. All I wanted was strong and stable relationship. What I lack is close male friends group to talk this out and to guide me from this rabbithole. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 10:28 AM |
| -21 | Breakup, need new plan of actionYou might be right about the bitch part. I am at my all time low. Yes. Feminine right NOW? Probably yes. I am not interested in casual hookups anymore. Sex is great, but it’s boring to me with older(plates i have ducked for some time) plates. Lets call it there is no connection (emotion), or call it that its waste of time. Bacause I do have other big projects and courses that am I part of. Which I was very proud to be like a year ago. I do feel some guilt about cheating my ex with other girls. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | 5 year old snow flake LTR - If you've a snowflake, this can help you in the futureWell. If it was asktrp subredid, that would be great. Now what the fork. Go no contact and work on yourself. Case closed. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | When to stop texting? [Friendzone]Soft nexzt Edzit: deletesnap. Why u validate for free? Way y u require validatione? Why y u no busey? Get busey. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend became "asexual" after 4 years of relationshipRuuuuun. This is kinda situation I had 2-3 years ago. Slap yourself! Soft next, focus on your shit. Profit. Erase her from your priority list. If she comes back - it will be up to you to decided either you want her back. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Frame control and malesWhat if what I do is already male dominated, alpha environment? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you get into a constant state of clear mindedness?It sounds like drugs are all over the place for you. What is about attention seeking? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 01:00 PM |
| 7 | How to keep in touch with people you don't care aboutHate to say that. It looks like a good idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/20 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the downward spiral since TRP?When I began practicing drawing, I found a good explanation on skill and knowledge. Imagine a simple graph that has time at the bottom and values at the left. It has two variables - skill and knowledge. Imagine your knowledge is 6 and your skills are 3. It will fuck you up from the inside. So you have to put in the time to balance shit out. Then you get in to the state of flow. After a while one of variables goes a bit ahead so you keep playing this game of balancing and improving. What you have… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 8 | What are you doing it all for?Testosterone baby. It is in you. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Plate told me she didn't want anything from me anymore so I left her. She has now reinitiated contact after two weeks. More insideTrue, and sometimes shit like this helps to reassure and works as a good reminder to more people. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | "why do you think I'd let you in?" response from dating app girl saying we should just hang out w her placeThat is all you could come up with yourself. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 01:46 AM |
| 4 | "why do you think I'd let you in?" response from dating app girl saying we should just hang out w her place"actually you wouldn't let me out" | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers what do you have to offer?Funny thing is everyone is selling something. When I teach things, I sell (knowledge) and manipulate people in to consuming it as best as possible. Manipulation was, is and will be normal as long as human being are alive. Way I find it, you have to dig in to the sidebar of RP to find your answer. That way you will find what RP teaches and wtf comments are about. Going thru is hard because it takes tons of time. Then you can compare it with you life experience. Also as some comments have mentione… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers what do you have to offer?Also RP states that you have to be open about your intentions since the beginning. For example, telling a girls that you are not looking for long-term relationship. And if she stays, she stays. There is no manipulation, you could say a logical decision of hers, or the way woman work. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill men think that other men are better than they are, AND they think women think other men are higher value as well.OP comment I wanted to reply was deleted, however - That’s some old man harassment right there, referring to OP. After going though all these comments I might recommend reading RP sidebar with an open mind. You might find more than just “RP is all about woman”. Woman aren’t even a goal. Just a byproduct that RP also advises to take responsibility of, as everything else. Imho all this is worthless discussion, you be you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Worth making a tinder rn?How bout you make your own decision on that and tell us how it went. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Finally going to start working on myself for good. Please critique my monk mode schedule, also welcoming advice.Totally agree. I’d say slow down a bit and have buffer time for wind down and just rest. Grinding is cool, but burnout is real. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:27 PM |
| 4 | [Repost] Handy Guide To Killing Your Bad HabitsPut a fucking tl;dr ir front ffs. All about ENTJ's that nobody else can relate to. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Social ProofWhy the fuck people can tag you w/o your approval. Go google socint security or some shit. 2020 people. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 4 | [Repost] If your girlfriend left, what would you miss?Now that you have said that. I am wondering, what actually is “great” men in “great” society. I am honestly confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/20 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Zero motivationSet goals that you can accomplish daily without exhausting yourself. Play the checkbox game. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Is A&A really that effective?For now it is what it is. Temporary high paying job. Lying, shit talking behind everybody’s back. I am glad I red “influence the psychology of persuasion by robert b. cialdini” so I see what principles are being used by manipulative people. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Is A&A really that effective?More concerned about M to M interaction, some passive aggressiveness. Not feeling like AA always works. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Is A&A really that effective?I am struggling with pressure flip. Any reads/tips? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 6 | My son died. No will to liveWon’t pretend I have a perfect grasp on what’s being explained in this video, or that it would fix everything. Just give stoicism a try: https://youtu.be/GW7LTPBzoDw Unfortunately show must go on. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Episode 1 - PART 2 of The Get Red Podcast with our very own Uncle Vas and itiswr1ttenUpload it to soundcloud or whatever. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | How to hook up with a girl friend in my class who also happens to have a boyfriend?Stop being emotional tampon and go read “the” sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | When you ask a girl out and she can't, do you need to wait for a counter offer ?http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Just giving this community an excellent book recommendation to start the year rightYou can do shit alone. I worked as media content creator. I am quite decent at it. I am also horrible at sales. That even tho I worked in various sub-fields, I fucked myself in the ass, undersold myself so that now it makes me want to puke. Even tho I enjoy my profession, I am considering working in sales for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Radical Acceptance. Buddhism and MindfulnessEven tho I found some topics really interesting. English isn’t my native language and I find it quite difficult to understand what I am reading... | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How to find Heartiste's earlier stuff now that his blog is down ?Fucking good. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 02:23 PM |
| -2 | Normalizing single mothersMy opinion is that you simply are hamstering too much. It’s a simple 3 act structure of the movie that requires drama and emotions for people watching it. So our monkey brain could connect the dots during the movie and make itself happy. Rest is just writers creativity and following the formula of heroes journey. Ofc that creativity just comes from previous movies, don’t invent the wheel or as artists say, everything is a remix. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | No condom hard condom softI might have been doing it all wrong.... thought durex one size fits all and only difference is in its lube, tubber thickness.. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Achieving Success in the Right Order MattersYou are fine, don’t mind masturbate on it. Just work on your next fulfilment goals. Do gym, do yoga or meditation or whatever. Wealth allows you to feel of that security and stability. Do not underestimate that. That comes from a person that spent his time working in tv and creating media for shit money. Being a -good- guy didn’t quite made any savings from it. Currently late 20s. Was living with parents etc. Even tho i am on deployment, I got a feeling of gaming woman just before I went away. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, why are so many crazy women so good in bed?What would one do to train his girls? I am currently in to lots of readings that help develop myself. I haven’t checked sex god method yet. Is it THE book for it? Will be having one unskilled chick in a while, need o get my training skill ready by then. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 7 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?During the BluePill days I had turned multiple woman down simple because I was in LTRs. Some of them were better than ltr at a time, some were worse. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | As a shy introvert how can i make people do most of the approachingI think people that write off personality test in general are full of shit. It was designed for military for a reason, go figure. However, even tho it puts you in a category you should’t get stuck on it. Yes it does have some truth about how your personality works, but everyone is an unique snowflake. Only you can figure out how YOUR head works. I personally don’t usually waste my time arguing in group talks even tho my solution is 100% perfect. I tend to get comfy with people over time and very… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 8 | "How do I make more friends?" By providing value. Here's how.Don’t take it serious. No homo. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/19 11:51 AM |
| 117 | "How do I make more friends?" By providing value. Here's how.There should be more articles like this. RP male-females stuff works and it’s great. I am no pro tho. But recently I began looking towards RP like male-male relationship pill (no homo). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/19 06:57 AM |
| 0 | How much you love her is of little importance. How much she loves you is what matters.I dare you i favorited story of the lion. Wtf is it... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/19 04:12 PM |
| 9 | Want some advice, has anyone been with a married woman?You should focus on other things* instead. :) *sidebar | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?I got 5 different girls in quite short period of time before I left the country. Some girls i had sex with more than once. Had 3 more possibilities to fuck, the actually on call booty. But logistics issues (no own place, fuck me), some girl i found boring, even she called me to her place over text after we hang out once and i jerked off on her in my car. For one i simply didn’t had time because I focused on two other higher SMV girls. Currently I am hamstering how to keep their attraction over t… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?I got my first lay in early 20s. Funny as it sounds, you have time. Was nerdy and played pc games in my teens, therefore lack of social skills too. But i began developing them in mid 20s. I began actually reading sidebar and spend money on hard copies of books. See it as “it’s not about the treasure, it’s about the quest”. What and how you do imho is more important than your looks. But you must lift, rest, sleep, repeat. After going from 30kg to 95kg squats in 6months you have no way, but feel b… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Should I just stfu and monk mode?Own your face and teeth. DGAF. Even tho i’ll prob get my teeth fixed to rise SMV at some point (currently late 20s) I am RP newbie, facing teeth and small mass issues. But DGAF mentality actually helped me score taller than me, more fit and perfect smile woman. And i am no special snowflake. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Internet sucksWhen studying movie language, I was told there is a simple 3 act structure most of the time. At some point in the middle hero hits the point of no return. Do nothing and stay fucked or do something dude. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Red Pill is Being Self EmployedDid some intership as front end for 2 months in small compny. Skillset i have is not enough for a job. Idk either I was discouraged by my slow learning progress or that I was put in to to big of a project with to many shit in it and could hardly handle it. Making small personal shit as front dev was quite fun, yet frustrating. I will look in to what you mentioned. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/19 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Managing LTRs friendsI totally don’t agree with you. Had same problem with ex friends. Now thinking back I tried to like ex friends, but fuck off. It’s hers. I found it hard to associate with them and their stories back from over 15 years ago. Later couldn’t stand them shitting on each other behind their backs after some time. For the time being I’d offer you split them in to smaller groups. And go do something active and go for debriefing afterwards. It either food out or a drink or a coffee. This way you have only… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Main things i took from the red pill.Any tips on self journaling? Currently I do have an issue with social dynamics in male heavy enviroment for next few months. Same dozen of faces, nowhere to go, it’s like being in the ship - just doing our job. We don’t get along with everybody. Isually it’s work in pairs. And we switch pairs. But as I read in the book of pook a day ago, I am wondering what these interaction and teach me and how so I get on top of it being with manipulative, shit talking behind everybody’s back and lying people.… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/19 02:59 PM |
| 18 | Main things i took from the red pill.Know yourself. I began wondering, does Carl Jung’s 16 personality types play a role in that? Do you guys see some use in it or it’s just some bs? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Feel like my wasted youth makes meeting new people impossible.Just do it? I started fixing my shit just recently I am in late 20s. Read some stoic shit. Not much I can do about my past situation but work from now on. So who gives.. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 3 | It is a red flag when a girl gets really into you pretty fast?If I am into a girl, somehow I make them fall for me pretty fast. Did that 3 times in last 3 months. Broke off with first one quite fast because was planning on leaving the country for 6 months. She became needy and demanding a bit so next. Other two I met on internet few weeks before leaving. Hang out, closed the deal a few times. Enjoyed my life, got some value to theirs. It’s a month as I am away. They keep writing me, one does less, the other does more. Actually cares if I no contact her for… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Parrents getting divorced.I wish I could help you more on this, but I’ll tell you what I have told my friend just few days ago in similar situation - they are grown ups, it’s their business. Noone can change the person but the person himself. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How to get respect from fellow men?So how do you kill your ego in this case? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you apply abundance mentality and frame into social interactions in general besides dating? In other words, is there anything different in how you apply it, and if so how?It’s valuable post. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Did you find that after gaining muscle you feel more confident?No, because I didn’t gain much mass. However. Did my first 102,5kg deadlift and 92,5kg squats just recently. Even being as skinny fuck it skyrockets my confidence. 5x5, amen. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 10:14 PM |
| 0 | How do you escape being part of the 30% of the 18-30 incel group?Hey, was 62-64 half a year ago. Now 68-70 | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you escape being part of the 30% of the 18-30 incel group?Dated equal height, now plating taller woman. By good 4cm. She is more fit too. BMI should be better than mine. Also not mentioning height on tinder. Just passing shit tests. I am better texting girls than talking to them, just takes extra effort. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you escape being part of the 30% of the 18-30 incel group?I am average joe by looks. 27(m), 182cm (6 foot), 66kg (145 pounds). Got a few successful run on tinder, then plated 2 girls and left the country for few months. Still in touch, they might be feeling of going LTR with me i’d say. I have shit situation in life carrier wise, moved to parents afrer split with ex but my hobbies boostes my self confidence a ton. I lifted. Did deadlift 100kg few days ago, started from 40kg. I am gaining some weight, but I am just confident in my own skin as it is. Cal… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Great career paths that are overlooked?Money wise depends on the country. Here you get good pay, but most of it comes from bonuses. So shitty pension. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | 2 years ago the girl that I had made the centre of my world dumped me. At that time I was anxious, stressed out, 45 pounds overweight and couldn't manage to save more than $10,000 despite taking home $50,000 a year.How the f star making a buck being in late 20s and leaving previous carrier. Being like 18 old now at career wise. | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Have any of y’all achieved or witnessed a man going from pretty boy to hyper-masculine?Got more books bout that? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Why are critics bashing on Joker?Maybe they are paid to leave a shitty review so we could talk about the movie even more. Any kind of exposure is still an exposure. | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys fap once in a while or do you hold your seed in until you have sex with a girl?What do you guys think of nofap for 6 months? I am dead serious. Let’s say sex is not an option in this situation. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with 18 month LTR tonight. Could I please have your thoughts and adviceIn your opinion, what are go to questions for screening? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with 18 month LTR tonight. Could I please have your thoughts and adviceElaborate on screening please. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | The Ultimate Red Pill is Being Self EmployedSoo. Love the topic, i am 25, have 6 months to study whatever I want. Have no idea what. Did some front-end web dev study. Did think of going to nurse school and do freelance (self employed). I am in national guards of my coutry in europe. Could go to professional sniper school, which would make me relocate and I don’t kinda want that. Have my bachelors at multimedia, video editing. Worked for 5 years as freelance. Getting grandfathers house, gonna fix it and rent for two young families and live… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/19 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Why does ignoring women work?I second OP. I recently found that in some group that majority is man, even tho I avoid being most funny clown or alpha male out of the pack - girls do come to me personally. That might come with my shown experties and them building trust in me (applies to guys too). But this seems different comparing to BP days. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Do you guys actually go your own way?I agree with OP. I am just lurking this sub, but there is some hurtbutt people mostly post trash and hate instead of focusing on what matters. | /r/MGTOW | 21/09/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Developing PowerPeople and your millions.. Is there any redPill for money making? I worked as a freelance videographer in East Europe. Edited commercials and tv, reality shows. Most of the time I felt like being raped and drained in this industry. Long hours, shitty pay. But now I began wondering should I go some other profession. Just close my eyes on interesting work and simply be money slave. Decided to drop it all and go learn front end development on my own. Which is hard™. Did fucking pro bono in one offi… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | FWB in another city wants more. Promote?+1 on LDR. Been there for 4 years while BP. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Ex wants to be friendsSay good bye and block her. You two are done. Didn't read tho. Comes from personal experience. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 03:05 PM |
| 4 | She asked me if im still a virgin over text. How to respond?(16M)Agree and amplify. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 03:00 PM |
| 154 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)As Elliot Hulse once said "goals over girls". Great post. Everyone has own demons to fight. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Classmates slowly gained respect for meHey, thank you for the answer. I am put in to new group of 30 people and some of people are familiar with each other years before. Also are extroverts and some do shit test a lot. I am the one who gets picked on the experience and my knowledge. And it began draining me. I used A&A and began doing stuff on my own. Spent time for myself, going to gym alone and actually helping them (for my personal needs). And now shit is kinda better. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 04:18 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Proven methods that help with being well-spoken?Good topic. Myself being weak at native language because I do know 3 forgein ones. Some better, some worse. It actually does fuck my brain in group conversations. Also, do think in english sometimes. Hard to get rid of. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Single woman with dogsWhat about the guys? Way to attract chicks? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Single woman with dogsMajority do take them to bars and their workplace. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:25 AM |
| 7 | LTR She stopped making future plans. How to respond?Same situation I had. Next her. As hard as it sounds. You walk away, else you'll get walked over, hard. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to go into monk mode and hide from the world for a year+?Deployment. All you can get is desieses most likely. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Is it better to go into monk mode and hide from the world for a year+?Idk man. Similar situation. I am going abroad for some time so won't have opportunities to approach women (don't shit where you eat) and also focusing on books, gym. Catch me up in 8 months i guess... | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:24 PM |
| 26 | Dropped an LTR for „not telling“ the truth. Have I overreacted?I don't usually do this, but - lol, but so true. OP - calm down and carry on. IMHO you did fine. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | If a LTR says she wants to take a break and it’s not cuz of “us” “just needs to clear her head” what should I think of this?What I am telling you - I wish I have told myself and done it when she began giving me trouble. Not only I'd save 6 months of hell after brake up, but also months before that. Do as you please, but focus on yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 04:54 PM |
| 10 | If a LTR says she wants to take a break and it’s not cuz of “us” “just needs to clear her head” what should I think of this?It is over. I chased my oneitis and tried to revive relationship multiple times untill it blew up on me. Putting me to the bottom of evertyhing. Drop her right now right there and go lift, eat, plate, repeat. You'll recover faster, she'll want you back, but you won't. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 01:07 PM |
| 5 | "don't shit where you eat" grey area; female roommate's friend?Hahaha. Love the response. I am all ears now. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to eliminate the need for women?Listening. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Going From 0$ TO 1000$Sound quality > video quality, once and for all, millennial. | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/19 04:10 PM |
| 63 | Girl says I am out of her league?Agree with her and tell her your league is much higher than hers. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 10:05 AM |
| 5 | Women are dymystifiedThumbs up for passions. I'd love to try special ops recruitment. But pays and shitty pensions turn this idea away. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Help with shit test.The fuck? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 07:51 AM |
| 2 | First time line dancing, applied RP behavior with success!Story of my life. Currently 6 or more months after done with oneitis. Got some trp knowledge. Was hesitating going to the wedding that i actually planned to go with ex. Actually went there. Saw girl, ignored her at first. Danced like IDGAF, which I never liked doing before with my ex. Took girl on board. Having my fun times with her since. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Humbleness.Don't get it either it's sarcasm or not. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP advice good for finding and keeping a decent LTR worthy girl?Totally agree. That's what i keep telling myself. It is just my turn. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Is TRP advice good for finding and keeping a decent LTR worthy girl?My guess would be it depends. I recently got myself a gf by following TRP principles. So i get constant pussy without wasting time because of my poor logistics for this day. Only way i can meet girls is by dating apps. Which i find boring and useless. After last oneitis for nearly 3 years, I am kinda upset at everything around so I only focus on my own shit w/o days off and i feel free to leave at any moment or shit test that she'd give me. :) | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl at work bought me a snackI don't operate in civilian enviroment in this case. The food is untouched. It is also distributed evenly to everyone. If you get extra, it is from someone else, usually who eats less or avoids meat products. Seems I didn't provide full info. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl at work bought me a snackI am curious too. In my situation at work some girl asks me if I want stuff she wont eat. Like fruits or extra portion of meat or veggies. Sometimes sitting table apart. She has a bf as i know. Our "group of people" began working together just few weeks ago. And I am not the most friendly and outgoing guy out there. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | My emotions are stopping me from growingThat's true. Since early days I was passionate of her and actually seen her as a prize I was proud of. To be honest I though to myself that she was out of my league. Recently I've met another girl that I had a meeting with just for few hours. I've found her interesting and probably set her as a prize once again. I bet she felt that I kinda liked her. Finally my idea of simply being kind to people beats me down after all these years. But neither being arrogant and sarcastic helps it either. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | My emotions are stopping me from growingThanks for feedback. You're right. For the last several weeks I had to gather some of my travel photos for one geography book. Problem still is that I can not force myself to do it because I'd see her scrolling thru. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | My emotions are stopping me from growingBlocked. Could you elaborate on prize mentality? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | My emotions are stopping me from growingDeep down I want to get together. I left that window there. I intentionally posted some FB stories of me doing stuff with people by camp fire, walking on coal and stuff. I thought that could subconsciously send her a message that I am great and she should miss me. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 11:04 AM |
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