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Every now and then I’ll see posts and comments in regards to Red Flags -- what to look for, why they’re important to consider, etc. But these are not the right questions; the correct question is: why even put stock into Red Flags?

Not only are Red Flags 99.9% worthless, we should instead be shifting the conversation entirely away from Red Flags and towards Blue Flags.

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What is a Red Flag, fundamentally? Basically: how fucked up is that individual; how much have they fucked over other guys in the past, and how hard will I get fucked over. But why do we even care how fucked up a girl is or how she treated men in her previous relationships?

Red Flags are a form of protection against the potential loss of commitment. We use Red Flags to vet potential partners to assess how we believe they’ll act once in a committed relationship with us; we’re trying to predict their fidelity in the future. Not only is attempting to predict the future a fool’s errand, but this fundamentally indicates a fear of loss mindset. After all, why would you care about a woman’s ability to commit to you, based on her commitment to other men before, when you know one of the most fundamental RP principles: she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.

RP men know that there should be no fear of loss, because we know that loss is inevitable. There is no magic combination of words or actions that will make someone stay in love with you forever. You can simply put as much effort into dread, shit tests, and comfort tests to slow the inexorable downward spiral of their attraction towards you. The amount of effort put in by you depends on how much you want to invest time and energy into sadder and sadder handjobs and single round fucks whereas you use to bang out 4 or 5 times in one session.

Therefore, from the RP man’s perspective, putting any thought into a potential lays’ Red Flags is 99.9% worthless. The 0.1% of Red Flags worth looking at falls under the following description: is she the type to call rape after a consensual lay or try to cut your dick off if she finds out you’re fucking other chicks. These are the only things you should care about, and you can protect yourself easily against the first; that second though… gotta be careful out there men.

Now, what about Red Flags from the woman’s perspective; surely they have some merit there. Wrong. When viewing an RP man, 100% of your Red Flags will be ignored as long as you create a proper frame for her to fall into and create an experience. In this case, the hamster will be your friend if you’re running the right game. The hamster will literally ignore a player vibe if she sees you as high value and fuckable. Her later heartbreak be damned! Plus, it’s exciting and creates those delicious emotions she craves. It’s important to state: Red Flags are those flags women say they don’t want to see -- i.e. fuck boys -- but will gladly ignore if they’ve been properly gamed.

And finally, the most important flag: Blue Flags. There is not a lot to say here as long as you know what BP indicators are: putting the pussy on a pedestal, excessive mate-guarding, saying “I love you”. As we all know: men slowly lose interest after the first fuck, while women slowly lose interest after the first “I love you”. And there are of course a thousand other examples of BP indicators, but remember this: the hamster will always, always notice these and run in the opposite direction. Whereas Red Flags can be hamstered away, Blue Flags will be hamstered into their forethought and become an essential definition of how she views you. Whereas Red Flags for a woman are those things which she claims she doesn’t want but secretly does want, Blue Flags are those things you thought she wanted but secretly doesn’t want.

Fin

Stop thinking about Red Flags: they don’t fucking matter and you’re wasting precious brain power on inconsequential shit. They’re inherently BP in nature because they are fundamentally intended to guard oneself against loss of fidelity in a committed relationship. RP teaches us that women don’t know the meaning of commitment beyond the fun butterfly period, and they all move along at some point. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. And, don’t even worry about her “Red Flags” when it comes to you.

The one caveat: if she might be a psycho bitch who would cut your dick off. In fact, I recently unmatched with a potential Tinder fuck after she said her degree was in “Gender Studies”; that falls under my “potential dick cutter” column and I don’t fucks with that.

Blue Flags should be in your forethought: in what ways are you signaling any latent BP beliefs when you’re trying to talk to women? These Blue Flags you’re sending are killing the attraction and will be a part of her essential definition of who you are. Too many Blue Flags and you’re out of the game. Focus on these, instead, and build yourself into something worth fucking.