So this is what I do.

  1. Walk up and approach the girl and ask for Instagram. (She gives it)

  2. Then I DM her and talk for about 2 days. Then ask to come over, with no implying that it’s just to fuck and I want to just hang out and chill.

  3. She says no.

IMHO I’m at least an 8 and they always give Instagram and stuff just that I can’t get past step two.