How do I become my old fun self again, without being perceived as gay?

IcyBear7 · 2019-10-22T02:42:28+00:00

you're being clown funny. Girl's like asshole funny.

FrozenTreeStump · 2019-10-22T04:07:53+00:00

Are you sure you aren’t gay?

Distractingyou · 2019-10-22T06:04:55+00:00

I think you were the fag clown in your class cause it was your "niche" i mean that there was more competent savy assholes funny so you decided to specialize in the role of clown fag of the class, saying something like yass girl with a girly voice in any way other than a mocking way will make girls doubt your sexuality and even doing it in a mocking way repeatedly (a few times its actually funny but like very few) will cause girls to be weirded out by you.

Also yes you are contaminated by your fag enviroment you are using words and sentences like non conforming identity, you know all this buzzword bullshit is not grounded in reality. The fags that are around you are promiscuous losers that have no dept in their life other than swallowing cock and will die in loneliness why do you think they are on the hedonistic path the same way with girls the diference is they can eventually get a beta but gays cant, in reality use the lack of masculinity to your advantage avoid the queer bs that i doubt you were doing when you were a child and well if you were doing it maybe you arent as straight as you think you are and you shouldnt be r3ading this post.

Anyways i think you need to seriously reconsider if that was your real humor and you were only doing it for attention, if you were doing it for attention it means you never developed a good sense of humour. Also you need to realize fags and normal man have diferent standars, girls are not interested in fags and they see them as eunuchs if a normal man falls on the limbo of alpha and gay its even worse cause you fall on a gray zone that girls cant classifie you which is not a good thing. By the lack of masculine energy they dont want to see you saying random shit like yasss girl

Versace-Bandit · 2019-10-22T06:58:47+00:00

"Yasss girl"? What part of the game is that??

Distractingyou · 2019-10-22T06:14:23+00:00

Also reading your other coments i see you grab womans attention by being the jesters court and giving them compliments in reality this doesn't work in my own case i say asshole shit like do we met before or what was your name or you are going to fall cause you are walking too fast and she was laughing and i was surprised she even walked slower. Basically girls love 2 types of humour the self deprecating beta humour (which is the one you have) or the asshole one where you troll the girl type of humour (which makes them crave your attention). So yeah you know what type of humour to develop

frognads · 2019-10-22T11:00:13+00:00

Jesus dude, sometimes I will act gay because I'm comfortable enough with my own sexuality to do so.

It's not how I normally talk so nobody assumes it's anything more than a joke.

Basically it should be obvious you are just fucking around. Where I'm from it's pretty common for even the most popular guys to make goofy gay jokes about their friends because it's just funny.

If you're gonna do it, pick your moments and do it sparingly.

Never once have I said yass girl or any shit that camp though lol. Think of it like Bill Burr putting on a woman's voice to tell a joke. It's obvious what he's doing.

LordFlakkko · 2019-10-22T23:00:31+00:00

Ive done all of that and no one thought I was gay... maybe its all the rainbow you wear

Title	How do I become my old fun self again, without being perceived as gay?
Author	Everglade301
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 22, 2019 2:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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