I went through a long relationship, then had a rebound fling turn into a shorter long relationship that ended spectacularly bad. A few months after I am kicking ass at a new job and interacting with a few women. The problem is, I've gotten to know these and various other females and no longer am I drawn to most physically attractive girls because of some past experiences (experienced and learned otherwise). I find their cycle of complaining tedious and unproductive. I am usually trying to develop skill sets and my knowledge base but at times I feel like I should have a partner, for social reasons. I'm also aware that I become gradually worse in my abilities/temperament when progressed in a relationship. Just going through this makes me want to keep everything casual and avoid the relationship with tact.