I find it sad that people say "well, like I wont marry her if shes been with 50 dudes (she probably has) but I'd be cool with 10"

wtf? That's still 10 men who have slapped their balls all over "your" wifes face, did all sorts of freaky shit with her, and then passed her over to you. "Here you go champ." I don't see how any man with self respect could honestly be okay with marrying a woman who's had sex with more than 1 guy.

I commonly hear: "I want a girl who knows how to have sex," yeah, you can train her to do that. Shes still been pumped and dumped and you're getting someones leftovers.

Idk, I was raised in a way where I put hygiene as a big priority. I simply think casual sex is disgusting. The only time I've been okay with casual sex is when I was drunk as fuck, which makes sense given that my judgement wasn't there. But imagine marrying a woman like that? There would have to be something wrong with you mentally