I get TRP concepts except for this situation. She is of a religion where she isn't supposed to be having sex (outside of marriage.) She is now divorced, 5 kids, and due to her region we could never be a thing mostly because of her family is highly religious or whatever. But that hasn't stopped us from doing the sex.. and a lot of sex.
She's in her 40s im in my 30s. She has 5 kids and divorced I have none and single. Her thing was that we could never be a real couple largely due to her religion and family and how it would mess her kids.
So she's been pressuring me to move on. After seeking advice on dealing with this situation, turns out she has been grooming me for TRP concepts. She's been begging me to fuck other women. She's been telling me more will come when I get money. She's been telling me she is poor and has no money. She's been telling me get with someone without kids. Shes been telling me she's just an old woman with nothing left now after her 14 years. After watching a lot of TRP content it's kind of depressing lol.
I've seen the videos "fuck other women and more will come" but she has already admitted she'll fade to the background. She has also desperately asked to be good friends. Starting out it was all blue pill stuff, but now we both agree to move on and she wants me to be in contact with her because after her divorce she doesn't plan to be with other guys, she has taken up some courses to get a career and not be stuck in retail anymore. She is trying to turn her life around. At this point TRP would say "Yeah she's just fucking other guys" but she has bought her family over from over seas and has to take care of them so for her it's work, school, family until she ever catches some traction.. already at 40.
Anyways I guess I'm conflicted. This isn't an a to b thing. It seems like she legit needs guy help sometimes.. but I also know the no free attention rule.. but also due to her religion and family in her place it's unlikely she will ever put out. I'm already moving on but would you still remain as her friend, with no benefits at this point? What does TRP suggested about having female friends that legit needs a friend. Not the "friend zone" but a friend, because she still reaches out to me everyday to tell ME good morning. I since stopped putting effort in but she's trying to keep at least the friendship going it's not a shit test just seeing what we're doing every now and then.
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