I have improved my SMV quite substantially and as I've read on this subreddit and others, when you raise it then others will take note and "say things". I know what a shit test is but I feel most of the comments is just subtle (always super obvious to me) disrespect that they throw out there in a passive aggressive way. It pisses me off which I know many will tell me that I have lost just based off of that but how do I combat these, because they are incredibly frequent and usually come after my flaws or things that I am genuinely insecure about. I am working to remove any flaws that exist but there will still be disrespect after that for different things. In the meantime, what is the best method to combat this? I wouldn't define them as shittests but definitely just disrespect stemmed from the other persons own insecurity and feelings of inadequacy. Thanks.