Hey guys,

I don't really post here but I just need to vent and maybe get some perspective on what I am doing right or wrong, because I feel like I can't talk with anybody about this and its starting to give me a lot of resentment.

So I moved to a Latinamerican Country, studied and lived there for 1.5 years now, I did a one year exchange at a university. So my Spanish is excellent now, I am an awesome dancer, tall (6'7) and obviously a foreigner so I get a looooot of looks from girls everywhere. I also am pretty sociable and go out alot, however even though I know so many people I never get invited to anything and it's hard to meet girls because, they ALWAYS go out with a lot of guy friends and their friends always guard them and this makes it basically impossible to get to know them, unless you somehow manage to get in to the group. I've actually been doing that, befriending the guys, and then they let me chill with them out, I've done it 3 times so far lol. But still, even when I met their girls, dance with one, they like me and all, and in the end, nothing comes out of it. THis culture here is driving me crazy. When I am with a girl alone I do well and I've had sex with one girl so far (one time), but since then, even though I am trying all the time, nothing. The problem is, I approach, even on the streets and supermarkets and get numbers and stuff, but I can NEVER get the girls out to meet !!!!! FUCK THIS SHIT. Like they 80% flake and neither offer another meet up or they just stop responding. THE MOST RETARDED THING IS, SOME GIRLS WILL FLAKE, APOLOGIZE, OFFER ANOTHER DATE TO MEET UP, AND THEN ON THE DATE THEY SUGGESTED FLAKE AGAIN. LOL

And then I see all the guys on the streets with hot girls, and I am the only guy that has nothing, even though I work 2-3 times harder than anybody here (most people here don't do much at all, they just chill the whole day).

I'm 23 and never been good with girls, maybe through a lack of father figure, I have always been the shy, hesitating guy but now I've changed and I managed to approach extremely hot Latinas on the street and confidently ask them for their number, etc, but that I still dont' get anywhere with them even though I put in the effort and work, it makes me fucking sad. Any advice to what I should do? People ask me all the time if I have a girlfriend, and whenever I reply no, and then a year later the same people ask me the same thing and the answer is still no, and I see that I've fucked up with about 30 hot girls that I met during the time, I don't know what else I should say, it makes me want to cry. Why am I so bad at this, even though I (apparently) have everything going right for me? I am literally the only person in the world that went to do an exchange in a supersexualised latin america country, wher everybody has girlfriends and fuckbuddies and waht not, and even though of having the advantage of being a foreigner and all, didn't score with anybody. I feel like a fucking loser. For the last 2 years I stopped playing video games, procrastinating etc, I am almost done with my degree from an Elite University, I am building my own startup, going to the gym 3 times a week and cooking every day healthy food, meeting new people and almost an expert Salsa dancer now, I travelled, I left my nest to get out of my comfort zone and put in the work every single day, whereas some street thugs here score with super hot girls, and do nothing at all. It's retarded. Why am I doing all these things, if in the end, I don't see any result, at all? No body even cares about it. In 2 months I'll be back in my homecountry and then all I will be able to do, is work, because now I am also broke, having put everything into my degree, startup and stay here. I tried to read, understand and apply in my real life. And now, all I am left is with is huge anger.