Appreciate all this free advice. It's like the Art of Manliness but straight to the point here.

Like my dad is a bitch so I couldn't look up to him as a father figure and my mom left.

My life was going downhill (sleeping on the floor, same shitty food over and over, toxic people telling me I'd be nothing), so I joined the military a little while ago and it's a decent life not as good as they make it out on tv haha. (I'm young so I still have a good life ahead of me though)

Anyways, I've been having trouble with girls.

So you see: I workout a lot, have nice fashion, car, provide for myself, good hobbies (like became actually good at music that people are amazed), have a bunch of traits people admire, etc etc.

No trouble in talking to anyone. Although, for some reason it's hard for me to build an intimate connection with a girl. Like kissing I feel nothing for even though they seem into it so I have to fake it (they say I'm a good kisser, but maybe I'm just so good at acting). Haven't had sex yet.

A lot of girls have agreed to go on dates with me recently but then bail, ghost me, or whatever. I don't know if it's just the name of the game, if it's me, them, some of the above, or all the above.

I'm feeling behind the curve. And it stings a little when all my buddies are banging chicks left and right.

Tried to solve this on my own but I think I need help. So any help would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.