I (19f) met a guy (19m) from Russia in August. We talked to each other almost every day and, a few weeks ago, decided to try having an LDR. Everything seems to be going relatively well: I saw his VK and we had a video chat through Whatsapp, so unless he's a super talented 3D animator and modeller that's absolutely dedicated to fooling me, I'm not being catfished. He's planning to come to Poland this summer, isn't a beta bitch (unlike most guys his age) or overcocky jerk. Lookswise, he's an 8/10. We share a few hobbies and I find him extremely intelligent. Because of all of this, I find him really attractive. There's only one problem: There's very little sexual tension between us. The romantic tension's there, of course, but... we never really escalated beyond telling each other that we wished we were in the same city for a few hours - and I'm starting to wish that we became a bit more intimate one evening... The question is: Should I try to escalate? And, if so, how? What can I do to prevent him from thinking that I'm easy? I never even brought up the topic of sex in our conversations! How can I do it without seeming awkward or slutty? And, if holding out until we meet in person is the better option, what can I do to show him that I'm also into him as a man, and that he won't be entering a dead-bedroom relationship in the long run?