I met a woman on Bumble about a month ago. We started texting and even Facetime a few times. I then fell victim to oneitis and started over validating her constantly because I wanted to sleep with her so bad. The constant texting led to me saying some dumb shit and that's when she started treating me like a beta. Telling me I have to tell her everything about myself before we meetup. At this point, we've been texting and Facetime for about two weeks.

The last time we talked before I ghosted her she said we would "maybe meetup" but she wouldn't give me a time or location. The entire day passes and I never hear from her again. I called her out that and she responds to me saying that I'm pushy and aggressive. She also said, "I said maybe because I was busy and now you're getting mad at me because I didn't drop everything and come see you". She followed that text up with a final text saying "This doesn't work for me. I wish you nothing but the best."

Like the beta I was acting like, I started apologizing and texting her asking how I could fix this. I never got a response and I took the L. I was only acting like a beta because I wanted to fuck her so bad. She was beautiful and threw me off my game. I started reading old TRP threads and I knew I would never hear from her again but it was a lesson learned.

10 days pass and my oneitis finally wore off. Surprisingly on Monday, I wake up to a text from her. She was explaining why she ignored me and my actions etc. I read the message, deleted it and never texted her back. I knew she just wanted to pull me back in to orbit/validate her. So, this morning I wake up to an Instagram friend request. It's her!!! Now I'm confused. So, I give in and text her "Why are you trying to add me on Instagram?" Her response was "Can I finally meet you tomorrow?". I haven't responded. I still want to sleep with her if I can make that happen.

What's my next move?