When someone calls me ugly, what is the best way to process the information internally and then respond to them externally? I’ve had this come from both girls and guys. For a sexual background, I’ve slept with around 10 chicks with an average of HB7.5. One of the comments about my appearance came from a girl at the bar that I ended up sleeping with that night. Every time someone tells me this though, I just freeze up. It’s like my whole world just collapses.