I feel like my ltr of 1.5 years is growing colder and less interested in me. How do I start applying some dread? I'm already lifting, taking good care of myself and I work on my career, and all those things improved a lot in the past few months, but they don't really do anything for her. To be honest I don't even consider that to be dread, I feel like it's common sense to constantly improve yourself. Which are some good first stepts to initiate dread?