I was on a 3 month coke and ecstasy bender for personal reasons. (For fun.. celebrating my new career) currently 30.

Hooked up with hb8 19 year old at a big 2 day house party. Constantly gave me shit for being old. We fucked 3x that night. Saw her few more times with mutual and did coke each time. But never fucked. Her bff is 22 hb9 who was also there each time even the ons night.

They both are red flags.

I nexted hb8 after she flakes on me.

I’ve been taking hb9 out 2x past few weeks and she flaked lunch on me today. My game was solid and she texted saying she overslept some bs and said if we can do dinner instead. I said no thanks and she said “I’m a fuck up sorry” and I replied “good assessment”.

I am not reading into this because I’m like zenning out. I care more about my financial game currently and trying to design that life. Sick of wasting time on hot crazies.

If hb9 responds should I soft next or give her another shot? I do wanna fuck her but rn my patience is running thin I just wanna get my money.

I have 2 plates but the are no hb9s. That’s the dilemma.