Hi all. I'm very much bought into the idea a man has his purpose primarily and a women secondarily. When applying this I find it hard however to motivate myself despite having a good job that pays well and where I have the talent of becoming the best in the field.

I realised not long ago that something was seriously wrong when I found myself having to force myself through the anxiety and pain of doing work I supposedly loved.

How then do we learn to love our work? How do we learn to love the process? To find meaning and joy and satisfaction in things that may not be as implicitly enjoyable as watching TV playing video games and jacking off.

How I suppose do we learn to love doing anything that is better for us (eating well for instance) but is not immediately gratifying and choose to spend more of our time doing the things than things that will ultimately leave us stronger and happier.