I spend alot of time on dating apps and swing between "message because she's hot" and "message because she's hot and not a fuckwit".

I feel like even if a girl is super hot, if her personality is shit she will be extremely frustrating to deal with/be around. There are varying degrees of bad personality, some are really bad and some are just kinda bad.

On the other hand if a girl is someone I actually like as a person it will inevitable go better because we'll likely "be on the same page". But these girls are rare.

However taking the latter approach seems to limit my options drastically. I would like to be able to get any girl regardless of personality.

What's your take on this?