I’ve often gotten two polar opposite views on the subject. That if you’re attractive enough girls will come to you. Meanwhile sitting around complaining they haven’t gotten a date in months or years. I’m not talking about losing your self respect and letting a girl run the relationship(if you will) but allowing yourself to just say I want to be in a relationship with that girl and I’m going to do something about it. Where’s the boundary for us guys becoming creepy? Am I missing anything?