Greetings Gentlemen,

New ish to this sub, first time post.

I’m here to listen others perspectives on this situation I have found myself in.

I’ve always been fairly successful with women, never too much of an issue getting to my desired outcome. I attribute that too myself never fully liking/loving the girl and it was always easy for me to walk away or give the appearance that I would or could...until I met her.

About a year ago I met this chick who I fell for right away, something I’ve never experienced before on this level. We spent a ton of time together for the first 3 months or so and things were going great. The more time we spent the deeper i felt for this girl. It was a bitter sweet feeling because I do enjoy being myself and doing what I want with who I want consistently...however i couldn’t keep her out of my head. Against my better judgement I chose to be slightly vulnerable and told her how I felt. That I liked her. That’s when things started to slip away slowly. We begin to spend less time together as the weeks went on until it was difficult to make plans all together.

I knew that I should have just kept that information to myself but and just move forward..but she was in my thoughts. But I stopped reaching out to her all together for 3-4 months..and throughout that time she weirdly would pop up on my social media..commenting on pics and stories, etc...when summer came around I officially reached back out again when I saw that we were both at the beach..we ended up meeting up a few times through the summer having a great time, hooking up, etc.

during one of the hang outs she brought up that she knew how I felt about her and she also felt the same about me, however she needs to ‘get her shit together’ whatever that means lol I quickly turned it around took her hand and brought her to the dance floor and we had a blast and ended the night at my place.