PED / Performance anxiety

9warbane · 2019-12-27T10:02:40+00:00

Generally as long as you're not super old and not obese, the problem is usually psychological. Could be not feeling safe, rushed, not comfortable with the lady.

Yesterday it was death grip? Cut porn out to if you haven't and if you really need to get a fleshlight to stop yourself using death grip.

Vynxe-Vainglory · 2019-12-27T12:24:42+00:00

Happens to me sometimes with the really hot ones for some reason.

First, communicate with her about it; in reality it should be a bit of a tease for her and rev her up more while she waits, but don’t let her try and “work her magic” on your dick because she will probably be overly aggressive; it might not work and then she will feel inadequate and get turned off. If she really wants to help out, get her to put it in her mouth but be slow and gentle....should wake the sleeping dragon pretty quickly.

But ideally, find a trick that you can initiate and somewhat maintain control over.

A slow kiss and a nice silent moment can do it for me, or just taking the soft dick, rolling a condom on it and sticking it in there. Her pulsating pussy almost always gets me hard and then it’s off to the races.

Usually only happens first time. Once we know each other a bit more, it’s normal again.

Title	PED / Performance anxiety
Author	boredathome19
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	December 27, 2019 9:37 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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