Should I start saying less with people in general? I have a tendency to care what people think. I've gotten better at not doing that but I def still need some work. The situation I'm facing is basically "damn if I do, damn if I don't" I try my best be kind, greet people etc but when I do people majority of the time treat me with indifference. If I stop doing all this people tend to think I'm mean or an asshole. Should I aim to be more of an asshole? And just say less all the time.