Chaps,

I have been visiting trp since 2015 and I have managed to internalise many of its aspects. It has worked fairly well with me up until very recently where I have run up against something I do not feel equiped for.

I digress slightly. One aspect I have not internalised or practiced in any way is game, as previously, I have relied on my height, looks, physical stature and social standing to attract women (I do not mean this as a brag, but as my own analysis). This has meant that I do necessarily get the girls that I want, but I have managed okay so far. Anyway, I am now beginning to read relevant literature on game in order to better myself (recommendations are welcome). I have spent the subsequent 4 years learning self mastery - stemming from my initial interest in trp. From this I have built excellent frame, meaning I am able to handle myself in a wide array of situations.

Now on to the main post. After 4 years of redpill awareness, I thought I had largely killed my inner beta. However, when I started a new year at university I developed serious ONEitis for a girl on my course. This girl happened to have all of the traits which I would select for a LTR, and I guess ( although I do not like to admit it) I have slightly pedestalised her. I approached, got her number, but ended up asking her on a date in person which she initially said yes to. But, once I tried to confirm over text she said she wasn't in the "right place for anything serious at the moment".

I asked you guys for your advice, and I Nexted her as you recommended, and tried to focus on moving on to the next chick as there are plenty on the course. This worked for a while and things got better. However, (perhaps as a result of the nexting and subsequent radio silence) she has continued to message me out of the blue, asking me if I am going to course related events etc.. This has made it incredibly hard to move on, and I'm stuck like I've never been stuck before. I feel like I did the right thing by cutting her out and trying to move past it, but her texting me is making it hard to truly let go.

Therefore, my question(s) is; Do you think she is interested, and should I ask her out again?

Having successfully spun plates for the past 4 years, and avoided ONEitis, this has hampered many aspects my progression towarda my own goals. Many thanks for advice lads.