I have a pretty wide social circle including people from high school, college, and my job. I know hundreds of people. By age 22 or so, I don't think you're going to find a woman with both a low partner count AND a lack of serious relationships who's worth anything. Sure you might find some incel female who plays video games all day, but do you want that?

I also don't understand why a woman who's had several casual partners would be a bigger hang up than a girl who's been deeply in love multiple times? Sure it's uncomfortable thinking about your girl getting railed by a bunch of different dudes, but is that really worse? Think, what if your girl got dumped by the man of her dreams and now you're the replacement?

If you think you're going to find a girl who has less than five partners and no serious hang ups about a guy she was in love with, you're out of your mind.