Just Say No to Kit Kats?

TheThingsIThink · 2015-03-21T02:58:43+00:00

I spent years dealing with my wife playing 'divorce chicken' and I would swerve and full court press keeping it together. I always maintained there would be no breaks and no dating others. No half stepping.

She played chicken again. I'm not swerving. I don't know about you, but I am either all in, or all out. I've been told my attitude is prideful. I don't think it's prideful. I think it's decisive. It took a long time for me to change my mind.

No one had a problem with me being all in to save the marriage. And I made terrible decisions while I tried to work on my marriage and establish trust. But now that all out my family is supporting me. My pastor and the counselor my wife picked (her God Father I just learned) are all telling me to slow down. But no half stepping.

MattyAnon · 2015-03-21T02:54:11+00:00

And yet if a guy wanted to take a break and fuck other women... you think he'd be supported?

RP_Student · 2015-03-22T00:47:42+00:00

My current GF (not a serious LTR but a step above a plate) talked about getting "space" and "taking a break" (mind you this was like two weeks into our relationship). I made it very clear that a break was a breakup and that one of my rules was to never get back with an ex. She backed off immediately.

fentrix2 · 2015-03-21T12:51:54+00:00

Not a single person questions if her actions were appropriate.

I want to make this clear: that's because it doesn't fucking matter. It never matters if they are appropriate or not. In actual fact, I think she is probably highly appropriate but TRP isn't about justifying for them, it's about making sure that you are good with what is happening. So the focus should be on OP, not his AWALT gf.

Oprahforpresident · 2015-03-21T03:24:38+00:00

I think a break as in time away from someone mentally would possibly be helpful to see if a relationship is worth keeping. A break to have a new person inside you is the end of the relationship. This guy needs to move on, this turmoil in his gut may taper but it will never go away.

Title	Just Say No to Kit Kats?
Author	stilllearningsed
Upvotes	37
Comments	14
Date	March 20, 2015 11:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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