Long story short I was LTRing a girl for about 7 months. The first 6 months of the relationship I was blue pilled. I was full beta and had very little control, then came across trp about a month ago. I’ve been trying to implement trp into everyday life as well as this relationship, but the full beta mode from before had left me too deep to get out. Before she could dump me and leave I decided I’d end things (shocking to her) and ask her to be fwb instead. She agreed. Now I’m lost as how to go about this new plate as we’ve known each other for a relatively long time and had previous emotional investment. She currently sees me as beta and the only non beta thing I have done is end the LTR and suggest fwb. Is this not a good idea? Or do I just roll with it and spin till the plate breaks?
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