I've seen this fwb three times now. Every time I've kino/escalated at her place.

I finger her, kiss her neck, suck her ears, dominate and she gets super wet.

Despite this, she's said "no" to having sex every single time when I've just been about to enter her. I did get a blowjob from her at least.

She claims she's a virgin.

Feel like she's just wanting validation and using her pussy to her advantage.

She asked if I could take her out tomorrow and I said "maybe" and then left.

Should I soft next or hard next? Or is there a better way of dealing with this?