Demeaning Friend Group

Opperkech69 · 2020-01-13T10:22:33+00:00

My three best friends and I always snap insults at eachother. "You're fat, go to the gym fat retard!' "Dude that shirts ugly as hell, where the fuck did you get that?" Sometimes they'll tell me something that stings really hard deep down and I'll be ashamed. But damn, I needed that. They see right through the masks I put up to hide my shit. They're the ones that keep pointing on my shit so I fix it instead of pushing it aside. And I do the same for them cause that's what real friends do.

[deleted] · 2020-01-13T11:48:53+00:00

At that age, you need to ensure your closest friend group has a "bro's before ho's" mentality. If not, I would seek a new group.

Once this is established, you have to accept the in-built "survival of the fittest" and competitive nature of men, especially when at the age group you are referring too. You need to revel in it, get good at arm wrestles, compete, use yours bro's to develop thick skin as they probe for weak spots, use it to practise and develop your "hardcore" banter.

If you want to be in a group of mens men, which is the type of group girls gravitate towards, then it is sink or swim unfortunately. The alternative is to be part of a group with more sensitive and reserved men that will provide much less social proof, there's nothing wrong with this and you might well make great friends, but it isn't really in keeping with who you want to be from a Red Pill standpoint. But if it makes you happy, thats all that matters.

RudeBed · 2020-01-13T10:37:56+00:00

Develop a firm concept of yourself bro, unshakeable by any shit talk. Agree and amplify, send it right back to them, they are just looking for a reaction, give them nothing to work with.

fannyfire · 2020-01-13T12:56:25+00:00

Sounds like you might be a pussy? I mean seriously. Do you want to hangout with soyboys that talk about their favorite latte at Starbucks? Guys tell jokes and shit on each other for fun. I call my friends faggots, I grab their ass and tell em all sorts of gay shit but I don’t mean it. None of us do. It’s just silly dumb shit. If you’re too big of a pussy to be name called without having your butt hurt the last thing you need to do is hang with guys who are even more gay than you.

thrwy75479 · 2020-01-13T14:25:27+00:00

Welcome to the jungle.

i think it is the same among any men anywhere

It can't be escaped. You're in competition with all men.

Whatever hurts, either make peace with it, or use it as fuel to better yourself. Learn to find, and pick on other people's weak spots as well. It can be useful in controlling them.

Title	Demeaning Friend Group
Author	TusharDua
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	January 13, 2020 10:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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