Women are terrible at forming their own opinions and judging something objectively. They always seek the approval of the crowd. That is why social proof is so powerful in attracting girls. A girl who wouldn't give you the time of day will suddenly show interest if another attractive girl goes up and talks to you. They don't even see anything wrong with this. They don't trust their own judgments because they know they can get emotional. What girls are good at, is judging something's value by that situations demand and supply.

Make this work for you. Pretend you're busy, and she'll treasure that one hour you give her. Act like a loser with no life, and listening to her talk about her problems every night on the phone won't get you any points. This is the concept of acting like the prize, any morsel you throw to her is seen to her as generous.

But the advanced level, is to treat her slightly better than others, or at least make her think that. Girls are jealous and just as competitive in their own games. If her girlfriends give her shit and tell her to get you to be more beta. For example, she wants to see you more than once a week, pretend like you're so busy pursuing your passion (job), that you only spend one day every other week with your friends! But because she's your pumpkin, you make one day a week time for her. That'll be enough to satisfy her and make her feel like she is winning.

These apply to anyone, male or female actually. But its particular powerful with women.