Here’s what’s going on -I text her good morning and good night every day and once a day I check up to see how was her day -I make plans with her often once or twice a week -I do my best to keep the relationship healthy and I remind her that I’m here for her and I check up regularly if everything is ok with her

I feel like these things aren’t bad / overprotective / annoying and if anything it’s what I’m supposed to do to make her happy

However

-she rarely texts first -she rarely asks how was my day -she rarely plans stuff

There are days that I feel like if it wasn’t for pure luck encountering her at a certain place we would’ve never talked or seen eachother

I feel like I need more time with her than she needs more time with me

And I know I can’t change people but I do care and love her

I’ve talked about this to her twice now and she reminds me every time we talk about it that she knows I’m here for her and that she loves me and cares about me but has yet to prove so

I need a reality check thank you