The only real rule of game is who is validating whom.

Are you giving the girl validation? Or is she giving you her validation? Hint you want to be the king who grants his validation to her princesship.

This plays out through shit tests and through frame. A girl throws a shit test at you, which is a test of your boundaries (frame) to see where you are in the social hierarchy compared to herself. She does this while being unsure of her own place and unsure of yours. If you seek her validation then she knows you are beneath her. Think guy who carries a girl's backpack for her, or does her favors, does her homework (guys have told me this is real). Never seek her validation. If she's seeking your validation then she's carrying your backpack. She's coming over to tutor you. She wants to hear you tell her, you did good girl. You're such a good girl.

Demonstrate your value by valuing yourself don't be the guy who needs her validation.

If you read any of the books like how to win friends and influence people you'll read that people like you more if you ask them to do something for you and they do it. Because now they are invested into you, supposedly. But it also means you are now someone who can grant them validation. They do something for you and you say, great job! They feel validated. "you did great!" They want more of that sweet validation, and you can grant it. And you can take it away. That's power

Ask girls to do things for you. But never ask, always tell. A subtle difference "hey hold this for me" while holding it out in front of her. Or, "hey throw this away" and hold the trash right in front of them. Most of the time people just take it. This is establishing frame. They do things for you, when they are done give them the validation. With a guy say thanks. With a girl you like make it ridiculous. "you carried that box like a boss, like a professional box carrier. I should hire you full time". Or after they throw away your garbage, "dang you could be a professional garbage man" but smirk so she knows it's a joke.

Heck throw in one further. "I should hire you to be my under desk girl"

This is agree and amplify to the shit test she hasn't even formed yet. Don't do it with guys if you use these tricks on them. Guys don't shit test and it'll only make them angry. Just say thanks man. They can get addicted to your validation the same as a girl.

Never seek her validation. Ever. You have no need of it. You validate yourself. Never ask her if anything you did was OK. Say you grab her hand to hold on your first date as you're walking around. Never ask "is this OK?" that is asking her for her validation. Rather give her your validation by say holding her hand up and saying, "you did a good job on your nails".

But then you have to withdraw your validation. You want her to seek it. So better would be, "you did a good job on your nails", 'oh thank you', "you have any sparkly nail polish? Looks cute on girls"

It's subtle but it works

Then don't give her a chance to really think about that neg and move things along. You can let a girl stew on a harsh neg but that's best in an ltr

There's no way for them to stop this either. She's wearing lipstick? "that purply lipstick looks really good on you".. "do you have red?"

"cute tattoo I like it".. "did you draw that yourself?"

Anything. The best thing about a neg? They can't stop it their is no defense.

Use negs. Negs were so powerful that when women read the old neg guides they shared them everywhere and then declared the neg was dead. That's how powerful they are.

First you give the compliment, then you subtly take it away. A taste of validation then a withdrawal, or the push pull. Meet a girl online?

"I'm always worried about meeting a girl online but you're really cute"... "so why are you using online dating?"

"You know you did a great job on your makeup".. "did you bring lipstick?"

"you should put on some more"

"that dress/those pants look great on you".. "even in those sneakers you're pulling it off.

"must be that butt."

"can't handle a first date in heels?"

I get it dont want some sore.. feet, after a first date

The neg helps you establish the frame where you are the one who grants your validation to her and she is the one who seeks it. By giving your validation and then taking it away. Don't insult! Their is no insult! You grant your validation, and then you take some of it away. You assume at every point that she is looking for your validation and you tell her how she can get it.

You can neg anything. A shirt with a meme of some kind on it? "I like your shirt" 'oh thank you blah blah blah' "my little brother has the same one", anything. "you look cuter than him though". Just give your validation, and then take it away. Give it back a bit, withdraw it again.

Just remember the only rule of game. Who is validating whom?